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Printer-friendly versionI hate my best friend rght now. I recently went to Washington D.C. for a week with my class. I roomed with two of my best friends (let's call them Mary and Lisa) Both of whom have been mentioned inmy previous blogs. Mary- she knows about my SI and refuses to talk about it or acknowledge it. Lisa- she knows and hasn't mentioned it or told me anything about knowing. So during the middle of the week, it just came out, I said it. So we start discussing it (me and Lisa) and Mary goes ballistic. She calls me a freak and tells me that I am so stupid and that I'm gonna die. she doesn't want to hear that I scratch not cut. she doesn't care that I am super careful. She doesn't care that I'm on this website getting understanding/support/help from all of you guys. She tells me that you aren't helping me. She says that you are just as bad as I am and that a cutter helping a cutter dosn't help anyone. I am so pissed off at her that I could scream. Not only does she make me feel horrible about myself, she lies to me all the time. She tells me and all of our friends that some older guy (6 years older) asked her out and he specifically told her not to tell me who he is. So eventually she "cracked" and told me. She told me that my sisters ex-boyfriend asked her out. I talked about it with him today and he was so confused /wierded out. he hates her. too be honest, I do too right now. She lies tme, she makes me feel horrible. I just don't know what to do. Do I just stop talking to her? Do I confront her? I'm just really confused.
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If she is a regular liar then
1 year () (Permalink)If she is a regular liar then she is not a very good friend. Friends show compassion.
Pretending that she is not a liar and she is indeed a very good and close friend, it may be possible that she is scared and worried for you. People who don't understand get scared.
I don't believe you should simply stop talking to her. i think you should be very blunt and simply ask if she is scared. Its hard for us, people with depression, anxiety, BPD, etc (We'll call it emotional issues for short) to recognize when someone is scared from the emotion love because we so rarely feel it.
If she refuses to talk or shows that she is simply a back stabber. Average Joe or self injurer, no one needs that and then you should probably consider lowering her status of best friend.
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Yup
1 year () (Permalink)that's what I'm tryin. She also (most likely) spilled about my SI to my school couselor. She still refuses to admit that she did anything wrong.
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hmm
1 year () (Permalink)yah id stop talkin to her.
"No, no! go not to Lethe..."
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