In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Malachi and Mikayla Owens | David | Ali |
| September 17, 1987 - June 8, 2007 I know you two were going through a living hell. And as twins i know that you were feeling each others pain as well as your own. I saw the cuts multiplying on your guys arms and I wish I could have helped you guys, wish I could have taken your pain away. You were two wonderful people. Always so bright and doing what ever you could to help others. You accepted me when no one else did. You didnt call me a freak when you heard about my SI like the rest of the kids. After the abuse was reported and you were taken away from your dad I thought things would get better for you two. Never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine the abuse you were enduring from your foster parents. Being taken from your home was to stop the hurt but it only got worse for you. I miss you two everyday. I cant stay mad at you though for ending your pain together. I love you. At least you two are together. | 12/24/1988 - 09/12/2005 I know your life was painful and your scars were your battle wounds. I'm just sorry I couldn't help you. There was this time when We went to the park and we just talked until 4 am, and you told me "things can only be bad for so long, just hang in there" I wish for once you would have listened to yourself. | 1967 - 1998 She fought so hard to beat SI and encouraged others to fight it too. She was courageous and I miss her.She is an inspiration for many to keep going and not give up. |
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| merlin | matt | Volkmar Gregor |
| 88 - 06 salut ca va? tu la fait ton cou s'est bris� et nos coeurs ont saiger ta vie a basculer pcq tu la decider nous restont la avec ton impression dans nos tete et ton visage a jamais sur papier on s'ennuie mais les chose sont ainssi depuis peu le soleil est resortit et nos coeur coagulent mais le trou laisser par ton depart ne se gueriera pas on t'aime et on s'aime on espere que tu t'�clate ou que tu te repose enfin la tete bonne nuit fais de beau reve et plane nous on va se demerder aplus tard avec tes eternel dix huit ans et ta beaut� in�gal� bye l'embrarienne bye la seule dsl miss you | April 1, 2007 you were the best friend I ever had matt...there isn't a minute of any day that goes by that I don't stop and think about you..i miss you so much..i just wish I would have known to not let you leave when you did..you might still be around..again i say...you were the best friend that I have ever had matt. i love you baby boy. fly high.. | I promise u, I will go my way...*love* kdm |
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| Jason | My mother Kathy K | Matthew |
Jason, we only knew each other for a couple of days. We met in a psych ward. You tried to tell me you were in pain, but I didn't listen. I'm sorry. You were only 18, and so much going for you. I cry for you and those you left behind all the time. I'm sorry I didn't help you when you were screaming for it. Jason, the way things are going right now, I'll probably be joining you real soon. You'll live forever in my heart. | I will always love you. I'm sorry you were so sad. | 12 may 1979 - 30 01 2003 Matthew self harmed from the age of 13 he took countless attemts 2 overdose till on jan 30 2003 he sucseded he died age 23.I hate 2 think of people thinkin of matthew as a self harmer yes he hurt himself but that wasnt all he was he was the most beatuful person ud meet both inside & out he touched the lives of evry1 who knew him. he left behind a lot of hurt that i dont think ill ever get over or forgive him for but i do no that he was in a lot of pain much worse than any razor could do to him i hope hes at peace now. i love you matty always will xxxx |
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| Kim | Josef | Joy |
| 87-11-03 - 06-09-14 Not a day goes by without me thinking about you, missing you. I love you so much, and no matter how hurt I am now, I am glad that I got to know you and I'm that I managed to light up your dark life, if just for a little bit. I will never forget you, and I hope that you are in a better place now and free from your demons. | 23-05-1986 - 15-03-2006 *The world did cry, the night you died* | 13.10.1990 - 3.3.2008 Joy-joy I miss you so much, everyday I think about you, it still feels so unreal that you're gone. Joyless I will never forget you. You EGG!!!! Fuck...:(Anyway you will ALWAYS have a place in my heart joyfulxoxoxoxox Spend all your time waiting for that second chance For the break that will make it ok There's always some reason to feel not good enough? And it's hard at the end of the day I need some distraction, oh beautiful release Memories seep from my veins They may be empty and weightless, and maybe I'll find some peace tonight In the arms of an Angel, fly away from here From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here So tired of the straight line, and everywhere you turn There's vultures and thieves at your back The storm keeps on twisting, you keep on building the lies That you make up for all that you lack It don't make no difference, escaping one last time It's easier to believe In this sweet madness, oh this glorious sadness That brings me to my knees In the arms of an Angel, far away from here From this dark, cold hotel room, and the endlessness that you fear You are pulled from the wreckage of your silent reverie In the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here |
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| Kate | Dean.T | Sid Vicious |
She was my best friend. Friend, who show my everything. I don't mean good. Bad. Specially bad. She was awesome. We can laugh and cry together. And cut ourselves together. In loving memory, Kate.Peace. I Love You. | You was so young when u went, we was only in yr9, i can still remember all the daft fings u use to say and can still hear u singin lazy loli miss u so much mate, u should still be here causing trouble and having a laugh lolmiss u love you loadz | 10/05/1957 - 02/02/1979 Torn apart by a world that didn't love you. Always so much anger. Just remember there are people who would give anything to have seen you smile and be happy. It was no ones fault, passing the blame changes nothing. Be at peace now because you didn't deserve it. Punk has destroyed lives, be your own label! From Spike RIP |
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| DANIEL VORHEES | My Father. | Judith |
| 1982 - november 12,2007 dan you were just so happy the last time i saw you and to do this is a kick in the face im so sorry you felt you had to go out like this all i know is that we will always miss you and be thinking of you. that just goes to say that you have given me strength to live. you were always there for me i just wish i could have been there for you in your time of need.but now that your gone i cant help but miss you to the fullest.i think of you every day. i think of how much your going to miss out on. i just hope that your in a better place than you were when you were with us. we will miss you | june/5/05 Daddy, i miss you terribly. even though i never really met you. she said you didnt want me. i cant imagine the pain you went through hanging there. its sad daddy. Ill never know where i got my humor from. i wish i could have met you. i have known all of this for quite some time. daddy, i have a secret too. and im scared that ill end up like you. please protect me. and make me scared to press down i love you. | I still cant believe you are gone. Maybe we should have done something more, to stop what you did to yourself. Saskia is growing up with M and she misses you lots I know and will never forget you for eternity. I hope that you are watching over your mother and mine as well as their silver angel to keep them from harm, and one day we will all be together again soon. I miss you and love you much! XXX |
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| Cass | trisha wood | iracund |
| May 24th, 1990 - October 8th, 2007 Cass you were loved on IRC and definitely by Matty, We're going to miss you. | 1993 - 2007 i know that you and i were close but not close enof i love you w/ all of my heart and wish to you that you are happy where you are i wish that i could have stoped you but its to late now. | 9/27/76 - 9/27/07 ou were so beautiful ... you were so bright. you were so full of pain. i didn't know how much pain you were carrying with you. i wish you would have shared it with me ... with anyone. i will forever have you in my heart. you will never be forgotten. |
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| Terry | Allison Boggs | Brittany Kay Wheeler |
| Feb.2, 1991 - March 27,2007 we miss you. i love you more than you'll ever know. | October 13, 2006 I never really knew you, Allie. But I miss you more than you could imagine. Then again, I know that missing you may make you feel guilty. I hope you feel better now, and feel in control. All I can do is wait until the day I next see you, however near or far away that may be. No one knows why you did it, but people are starting to let go. Letting go & forgetting are different, and I hope you realize that. I keep thinking that maybe you didn't man to go through with it, just pass out. But then again, maybe you got what you wanted. I hope you aren't mad at your parents for their choice. Love you, sweet dreams. | July 27 1990 - November 1 2004 I miss you Brittany...watch out for me up there |
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| Matthew |
| July 30, 1987 - October 21, 2002 It's hard to believe it was five years ago today you left us. Your dad still can't talk about finding you hanging in the basement. Your brother still won't talk about how much he misses you. And me...I just cry. You will never know how much you are missed, and how big a hole you left in all our hearts. I pray that you have found the peace you couldn't find here. We will forever love you - and miss you. Mom |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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