In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Xavier A. Perez | John | Irina Minosjan |
| 3-16-1984 - 5-18-2006 You were so young with your whole life ahead of you. I am so sorry i couldn't take away your pain and make everything ok for you. I knew you were hurting but i never could have imagined just how bad things had gotten for you. Amy is so lost without you and little Cali will never get to meet her daddy. I just hope you know that you were loved and now you are deeply missed. | Fathers don't act that way, fathers dont decide enough is enough and then go. Never thought i was like you, but with every day it becomes more apparent... i am just like you. | 23.05.84 "I come from the old time,baby Too late for you to save me" I will always love you |
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| James T. Richardson | Angelique Krynauw | Desiree N. Schultz |
| February 17, 1966 - June 11, 1987 I love you dad! I'm sorry the pain was too great, I do understand although lots of people do not. I'm trying not to follow you...I hope to see you someday when this life is over. Love Always, Your Daughter | 1986-05-29 - 2006-03-1 I know that you did not take your own life. Depression took your life. I will always love you and I am sorry that I could not comfort your pain. Know that you will always be part of my life. Forever in my heart. | 9/10/2006 I didn't really know you, Dez...but I thought it would be kinder to add your name to this site rather than let everyone forget you.... The following was a post I made on the Guest book for Dez on the News-Journal website. ".... I never knew you. But I did indeed cry at your wake. You were an attractive girl. During the wake, I remember saying to no one in particular, "I never knew her." And Coral, who was walking by at the time, said "Neither did I." It's odd, how you can say something at times of chaos, and someone you don't know will answer. I can't say that I don't understand what you did....I've made a half-assed attempt at suicide before, and I've self-injured. But I've never heard of someone who, going to the same school as me, living in the same state, had succeeded. Grief does strange things to people....you made this obvious, Desiree." To speak to others who knew Dez, follow this link: http://www.legacy.com/news-journalonline/GB/GuestBookEntryPreview.aspx?PersonId=19202893 |
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| Gary | Scott | My PaulyBear |
I'm sorry I didn't know you better, and that you couldn't talk to me. I wish you could have seen a better way out. I hope wherever you are, you're happy. And I'll never forget that one amazing night xx | 11/12/1984 - 12/21/2005 He was my brother. More than that, he was always the only one that was there. Every time I needed him. | 16/8/1986 - 27/3/2007 paul, we talked for 3 years over msn, when you brother told me the news i cried for weeks... you are free now, your my inspiration, ill work harder to make it out of this. I love you paul. XxX |
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| Kyle | KDP | Derik Love |
well.. i know that i didn't know you very much but hey you were my best friends cousin and i shouldn't have been so mean to you. Now you have me cutting i still blame myself for your death because of cutting i shouldn't have been so mean to you and i am so sorry i am really sorry Kyle. hey Clarissa misses you so much so i'm sorry | 4-17-1983 - 10-24-2005 I know this life hurt you so mcuh. I just wish you could have held on a little longer. You always promised you wouldnt go this way. You told me that I couldnt hurt myself...even if i only did it for you. You have no idea how we miss you. Im just so glad we had our time together. I miss you every day. | Derik, You were a friend to us all and we love you dearly. There is nothing that we wouldn't have done to help, we all wish we could have. We miss you more than you will ever realize. I think about you everyday and remember all the fun times we had together. Running around that big track, playing on the play ground and in the sand, going to shows and you dragging me into that dance pit with you. Danging isn't the same with out you. You were my hug buddy, your hugs fixed everything and made the whole world right again. No one will ever be like hugging you. I can't wait till I get to heaven with you so that I can have some more of them. I better be a good girl so I can see you again, I'll do that for you, I'd do anything for you. I would take your spot in a heart beat if it was possible. Take care of your self up there, i miss you like crazy bro, I LOVE YOU my dear. |
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| Joanne | Jenny Mcphee | Ashley Sabo |
| September 19, 1985 - May 21, 2004 Sorry we didn't always tell you how beautiful you are, but you were and forever will you be remembered that way. We miss your smile and your laugh and your good, good heart. Love always | 11/24/04 We will always love you Jenny [Suspended on silver wings] You were only 15 years old... | April 20/1980 - Oct 20/2004 Ashley was a torture soul who died way to soon at her own hand. I miss her everyday, and though we were apart when she died, I miss her everyday. |
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| D&E | Billy | Amber-Rose |
| April 20, 1999 The hate of others is so strong and you were both just a casuality of something so cruel. I love you both. I won't ever forget either of you. | Sept. 1986 - Sept. 13 1999 You were very special to me, but I still don't understand after all these years. I miss you and love you dearly. I would have done anything to have been able to stop the bullet you shot to end your precious life, you'll always be with me. | Teapot, I miss you so much. Love you always Lunntte the Clown. |
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| Cassie | Heather Dawn | Bruce Ian Ramsey |
| 03-18-1987 - 10-31-2004 it wasn't that bad, it could have been worse and now that your gone...it is for us! You are in my veins, you can never die, and my love for you will go on forever, I love and miss you always! | December 3, 1989 - October 16, 2003 She was a really great person. She was beautiful inside and out. Her smile was beautiful. We all love and miss her very much. Not a day goes by that she isn't thought of. | 1978 - 1999 Bruce on The Lose, Sweetie...I miss you daily. I miss your big, brown eyes, and your mischevious smile. I am sad that I could not do more to prevent your death. I am not mad at you, I just miss you. Rest in peace in the arms of Jesus now. We are all trying to better ourselves in your honor. Bless you, Harley Dude!!! |
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| John... | AJ | Jesse |
| 6/12/1990 - 25/11/2004 never would i think coming home on my sixteenth birthday to find that my 13 year old brother had slit his wrists. coming home to find that my brother! had died after the pain we have been through with eachother he decides to go first. i have never been totally close to you john and you went mental when you found out wen i was in hospital for trying to do it. you promised me you would be there for me you would stay stong, you sed you would help me get though the pain im going through with the rape and the bullying. never would i had thought you were unhappy too. i will never know whether it was to do with me, wether i had sumthing to do with your death, whether it was my fault? ill miss you baby bro, i cant stay in the same room as mum n dad all they do is cry. baby dyl will grow up asking where did uncle john go. where is uncle john. i wont be coming home asking where you are. i wont have my baby brother to argue with or to have fun with. i need you john i need you why did you have to go? never will you know that i love you, i didnt tell you ennough. i will never know the reason why you went i sh more because i want to know why..... | Jan 2002 .. Why? | 9.5.1991 - 31.10.2004 I love you forever. I'll always miss you. You were my best friend. I hope you are happier now. |
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| Daddy |
| 1956 - 2005 I loved you too late. Hopefully we will make up for everything in heaven. |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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