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In Loving Memory...

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A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury






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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.

At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.

At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.




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AngelaNINAKim Pugh
March 13, 1968 - November 30th, 2004

My mother struggled with SI since she was very young. She took her own life in late November. She was a beautiful person put thru too many tragedies. I chose "close friend" as my relation to her... because that's what she was to me. More than a mother... a friend, One who will never be forgotten.
jan.29.87 - jan.16.05

I was only 14 when i first met you. I knew i loved you. I remember that last night you were talking about comming to see me. When i turn 18, you said we go to canada and get married. I love you. That last night, when your mom told me what you did, i lost everything. All i have left is your locket and a hole in my heart. I love you always.....please wait for me.
Sept. 24th, 1984 - June 27th, 2005

and don't it always seem to go
you don't know what you've got till it's gone.

I wish I'd known you better Kim.
The obituary said you died after a brief illness. We all know that was a lie. We know you've spent years fighting your demons, and hope you're finally free of them.

We carried a banner for you at pride. I hope you saw.
EDWARD COPELANDCassieCas
09/12/1969 - 24/3/2005

He left us quietly,
His thoughts unknown,
But left us a memory,
We are proud to own;
So treasure him Lord,
In Your garden of rest,
For when on earth,
He was one of the best
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU EDWARD EACH AND EVERY DAY
16th june 1988 - 3rd august 2005

I will never ever forget you hun, you touched my life and i will always be wishing i could have helped you more,
but now i know you'll be happy, you are where you wanted to be for five years,
in the darkness let us find hope
in war, find peace,
let my scars be a testement
let them show i haven't given up the fight

my fallen angel, never rising again,
you were our secret princess, we will never forget,
Sarah
x-x-x
16th june 1988 - 3rd august 2005

my secret princess, i'll never forget you
you may not of have been my blood, but you were my sister
love and hugs always
SakuraJulia Y.Ben Ernst
28th of march 1990 - 16th of august 2005

Sakura died at age 15 on august 16th from self inflicted wounds she leaves behide a mother and father who didn't know her pain...
September 10, 1991 - March 13, 2005

september 9 1986 - february 4 2003

You were a great brother and son. EVERYONE liked you!..why'd u leave so sudden.I miss you so much...someday i hope to see you again!..
Kaitlyn and KarenJordyRandi
3-2-1990 - 8-19-2004

Kaitlyn and Karen...I love you so much! I think and miss you everyday! You will never be forgotten! Please watch over me and guide me! You guys are the best! And I pray for you each night. Every night I dream of you back with us! We will never loose sight of you! We love you for forever and eternity!!! <333


You were such a good person, friend, i loved you but never told you, i wish i could have told you how i really feel about you. i think about you everyday you no, its not easy with you gone, i love you jordy,always have and always will..:'(


I wish you could've known how you affected everyone in life. When you died you affected people who had only seen you in class or in the hallway. And although they didn't know you, it has helped them to be stronger. Thank you and Goodbye.
TylerFriendMark


I walk in your footsteps every single day, and your smile will always be behind my eyes.
Every guy that I will ever love will never compare to you. You were my first, you were my everything, and you can never be replaced. I miss you so much.
Starbucks just isn't the same without you.
xxx


Kari's Friend who died from cutting. Girl, I never knew you, but I've heard about you, and Kari misses you. I'm sorry you felt you had to go, but Kari got out because of you, and now she's helping me to stop as well. We will never forget you.
~Brandy


Mark,
I do not know why you pulled the trigger...I may never know
Its been almost a year since I got that phone call..I love you so much...And will never forget you,Never.

Jessica M.
Yama (Matt)Joshua Michael SteeleAndy Rith


When his heart was broken, this walking Digmon character look-a-like had his soul broken too. He felt that life wasn't worth living if everyone hated him, and that if his father could do it, why couldnt he? So at 15, only days before his sixteenth birthday, he carved the only thing that ment anything into his neck, her name. He died, regretting it as it said in his letter.


Joshie- You're always missed. We love you too much to put in words.
June 26, 1991 - August 15, 2005

I've had quite a number of memories that I've had with you. Even though our times together as good friends took place in school, every vivid memory is worth it no matter what. I can't think of ANY bad memory of you, because you are such a great person. No matter how tough your life was, you were able to hold on for 14 years, but you let go... so soon. You could have held on much longer, you know. I hope you thought what you did was the right thing to do; therefore, you have left soo many of us in pain, sadness, anger, and agony. Just remember- we are ALL here for you, you will for sure be with us from to the day we die. For many of us, we'll be with you in the afterlife.
We'll remember you as someone who always seemed to have a smile on his face when we watch you. What we never saw doesn't seem to count as anything, because it's all about being positive. To us, you're our: brother, cousin, friend, best friend, loved one, soul mate, and so much more.
May you rest in peace...
Ajla KolesnikovaEmanuelRose Hart
6-6-89 - 4-2-05

You were such a great person. I wish I would have known sooner about the cutting so I could have been there for you. You will be greatly missed!
1985 - 2002

thank you for beeing there when everybody left - thank you for loving me everytime - thank you for trying to be there for me, though i couldn't speak bout all this shit - thank you for being the greatest boy on earth

i love you, and i alway will - you are the best - without you i feel so alone ....

hope you hear me every night...screaming you name...i don't understand why u left me



luv ya
January 14, 2004

cannot tell how much I miss you. After Andy left you, you just fell apart. I wish I could have helped before you slit your wrists. We all miss and love you and we hope you are finally at peace after all that pain and misery.15 is too young to die. I hope that when I die, I can finally find you again. I hope also that you have found your way and are happy with the choice you made. Love Becca
Christina BourdineAshley Stead/BatesCaroline
10-23-1979 - 6-18-2005

I miss you very much sissy. you were awesome for what time i knew you...you will always be in my memories
? - 2004

I never knew you, only admired you. When I first saw you in 8th grade, you were perfect, popular and well liked. By the time I saw you again in my sophomore drivers ed class you were out of control. You never knew me, but I knew you. you were everything I ever wanted. I now that sound selfish, and weird, but it is true. When I heard you left this life I felt empty, I don't why because I never really knew you. I wish you were still here.
1969 - 2002

I'm sorry. Yor are deeply missed by many.
Sarah Claire Robinson
11/13/84 - 10/14/05

there were times when i knew that something was wrong and i didn't know why i didn't stop you. Sarah,I remember the last words you said for me before you pulled the trigger. "Time for me to burn ." I miss you more than you'll ever know. I just hope that someday i will see you again and that you know we all love you so much! You don't know how much Andrei loved you . After you shot yourself, Andrei killed himself. He wished he could have taken back the hurtful words that caused your suicide. He burned himself to death.We don't know exactly how much of his brain the insanity had eaten up. All i know is that i love you and miss you and will never forget you .

Becca

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Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders

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