In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Beth Taylor | Matt | Gladys Emma Lansdown |
you always knew how to help me I love you | I never thought I would have to live with the pain I do now that you're gone. I miss you so much...I just wish you would have stuck with me in quitting...It's so hard that you're gone, that I'll never wake up in your atms again, never hear your voice, taste your kiss...I miss you baby...so much. | you were an amazing person , you made my life worth while and i love you every minute of every day for it, |
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| Tina | Jeremy | Melanie |
| July 13 1990 - November 12 2004 I miss you so so much! Your brightness and cheerfulness just made everyones day. You were the prettiest and best person I've ever known. I just wish I could be half as wonderful as you. Everytime I think of you, I can't help but cry. You'll be in everyones hearts forever, and you'll always be remembered as the girl who could lighten everyone else's day even if you couldn't ligthen your own. I love you, and you'll always be my best kept secret. | I'm so sorry for the way I treated you before. I was wrong. I wanted to make it up to you, but I didn't have the chance. You died that day, I will never forgive myself and I will always love you. | Even though we're related, I didn't know you well, but I do know one of your sons. Sometimes I think how could anyone be so incredibly selfish. You left a husband, 2 sons, and other family members and friends who all loved you dearly and who needed you and still need you. I feel so sorry for Daniel and would probably kill myself if I were going through what he has to go through now, but I know God will see him through. If only it hadn't have been him who found you lieing on the porch with a hole in your head. You will be forever loved and missed. |
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| Abby | sandy | Lucy |
| August 11th 1989 - January 4th 2005 Abby you were, and will still continue to be my bestfriend. We have gone through so much together, but i just wish you would have talked to me about this. Abby i miss you so much, you and I were bestfriends for 6 years. Why did you have to leave me? Why? I am so lonley without you, dear. But Abby, i dont hate you, and i am not mad at you for this. I will love you until the day i die, and more. You have given me so much confidence in myself. You are truley an angel, and i just hope you are watching over me. I can feel you in my presence everyday. I love you so much Abby Jones. Love your best friend forever, Allie <3xoxo. Ps- Your spirt lives on in me. | 1992 - 2005 no matter how hard i would tell myself that i didn't love you i know that all along i was just denying that you were gone | 30th June 1988 - 3rd November 2005 why did you have to leave me here alone.... i feel so sad that you're gone cause we were gonna work through our problems together...i just hope this hurt will heal...i'm just wishing i was with you- but ive got to be strong...i just wish i could have helped you more |
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| Alicia K. | Matt | Alyssia |
| 2005 Alicia you were so young, only 13. I remember seeing you at Jannelle's house everytime I went there...the first time I went to her house after you hung yourself, was when it really hit me that you were gone forever. Even though you didn't live there, you were there everytime I was, so the house felt emptier without you...I'm sorry I never got to know you better, it wasn't that I didn't want to...I just didn't know how to start a conversation, which I know is a horrible excuse...I just hope you know that everyone misses you, even the people that barely knew you. You were a great girl and I'm sorry that you saw that as the only way out. We'll never forget you. Love, Michelle | 16 September, 1986 - 16 September, 2004 My dearest, I promised to come for you. Perhaps you forgot, but perhaps I wasn't enough. I am so sorry, I take full resposibitlity for your suicide. Please forgive me. | february 12, 1989 - august 16, 2005 Though you are gone now you'll always be here in my mind, and in my heart but also on my arm we cut together but we'll die apart this saddens me and I want you to know I luv you so |
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| Adrienne Vargas | Rori | Melissa Wescott |
| Febuary 7, 1971 - August 20, 2003 you may have forgotten me but I've not yet forgotten you as long as my love adn my memory last I will remember thee. | 14/2/88 - 21/9/05 You started cutting at a young age, due to family problems with abuse and ignorance. You were hated at school by many, but I was there for you. You burnt, you cut, you did whatever you thought would help, and then, one day, you went to far... I do the same as you Rori, my beauriful fiance, and i hope to see you again one day soon, you are my only love. Isaac | May 18,1969 - October 4,1993 Mel, It's 12 years this month since you've been gone. I realize that your suicide put an end to your self injurious behavior but I would have given anything to still be able to love you -scars and all -I miss you! You're always in my thoughts, Mickles |
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| Rachel | Mikey | Tim |
| 6/3/85 - 12/25/02 I hope that you're at peace now. We all miss you, and still light your red candle every Christmas for you! We love you! The Gang | 1/23/1986 - 1/23/2005 Sometimes I think if I would have found out about it earlier, been a bit more nosy I could have saved you. You went too far that night, and in the envelope along with the letter, you included the razor. I keep that razor with me, everywhere I go. You were the love of my life, the only one I could picture myself with. Now you're gone. You killed yourself on your ninteenth birthday. The day you were planning to propose. But now all of that is gone. | 1960 - 2003 It breaks my heart knowing what you lost when ou had so much to live for: your children worshipped the ground you walked on; your students loved the inspiration you gave. RIP. I wish I could have taken your place. |
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| Justin Jackson | Dara | Dan Rockwood |
| 1-2-1989 - 5-1-2005 We miss you sweety. Your mom doesn't drink anymore, she hasn't since that morning. Ashley o.d. and wound up in rehab the next week. We love you and miss you so much, especially Ashley. See you soon. | we talked;we laughed; we were closer to eachother than our own family.we hurt together; we loved together;we laughed together;we got in trouble together. then one day he was gone. she was my ray of sunshine and she will be forever remembered and loved. her spirit lives on in the lives of the people she touched. | he was such a caring person alway there when you needed to talk or just needed a hug. so many loved him and stil do. i will never forget the last time i saw him or march 20th they day he left us. i miss you dan. i will always love you. |
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| edward my dad | josh w | Shana |
| nov 21 2003 dad i miss u so much i wish i could have seen u b4 u left us herion and pain killers bad conbantion i miss u i forgive u for everything u every did to me i just wanna see u again | 1987 - 1999 he was the first guy i loved. we were allways together. he died oct 21 of 99 in his room in washington state with me in the room and couldn't stop him. i know he's in a better place but i wish he could be here i luv him and allways will til the day i die. he was a great guy even though he was quiet and dressed diff. we were allways there for each other. u will never be forgotten joshua | 1990 - 2005 No one ever thought it would happen. <3 |
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| sara treadway |
| 6-12-1990 - 9-23-2005 i loved you but you never knew it. love paige |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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