In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Lauren | Chris Key | Tori Thompson |
| 14-05-1990 - 27-02-2006 I'll Never Forget | You were a great father for the time I got to know you. I wish I could've saved you. | May 6th, 1993 - June 1st, 2006 I miss you baby. Stay safe. Love you. |
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| Sarah | Emmi | Alexander Meland |
| 01/10/1986 - 19/04/2006 Sarah, you were my best friend ever since I was little. We went through it all together, the abuse, the deaths, we laughed, cried and even cut together. Not a day goes by when you aren't in my thoughts. How could you just leave me? I was so angry when I realised that no matter how often I rang your mobile that you wouldn't answer. How could you leave me to cope alone? Why did you have do do it where I would find you? I shouted to you, I don't know if you heard me. I still have that shirt that I was wearing. It has your blood on it. Its in my wadrobe. You know I took that razor of yours from your moms house and threw yours and mine into the river, exactly where we said that we would want to be, to prove to you that you could have done it. I was so tempted for so long, I am still am, to join you. But I am being strong. Amy finally got to her goal weight 86lbs because of you. I don't hate you. I never could. I wish you that knew of what you would put me through. I wish you were here with me to help me cope. I bet that you never realised that all the pain that you were hidding would be released to me when you did that. Sometimes I can barely breathe. I have taken yours, but I am so glad that you are free of it. You touched so many people. You were a beautiful person, and I can't wait to see you again. I love you so much. Ourah! xx | June 9th 1989 - June 25th 2005 Emmi, I loved you once. You were my saviour but you brought out the worst in me. It's nearly a year since you made me be the first to see you lying there, and I can't forgive you for it. I miss you, but I've found love again. I just want to know why! Was it to spite me? Goodnight my purple one. Love your little doll Charlotte xxx | March 19 1989 - February 15 2006 Alexander struggled with si a long time, until he finally took his life on february 15 2006. We all miss him, as a friend, best-friend, brother and son.. |
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| Lauren Niederer | ashley | Dylan |
| 10-12-87 - 5-5-04 You will always be the sunshine, that shines upon me every day. You will always be the flower blooms, that appear each year in May. You are the twinkle in the stars. The sparkle in the sky, the breeze that blows on a cool fall day. These signs just do not lie. You are the wisper in the wind, The shadow on the wall, you're with me when the seasons change, and when the leaves begin to fall. you will always be apart of me, and never far away youre in my heart and in my prayers each and everyday.. i love and miss you more then words can every say | 3.19.92 - 6.24.06 to my twin sister, we miss you ashley. this is me. cassie is here too. she was ur best friend. she misses you. we all do. if you see mom up there...tell her i love her. cause we all do and we miss you ur funeral is on tuesday, we'l l all e there aaron will be there. he told me to tell you that he loved you see you someday | Sept.11, 1981 - 1999 I'm sorry that you lost all hope. I'm sorry that no one cares to remember you... I'm sorry that no one will speak your name. I know that you are beautiful. I'm sorry they never told you that. I'm sorry that they poured into you so much hate. You were just alone. But you'll always be blue to me. You'll always be beautiful, and you'll always be smiling. I.. miss you.. so much. I hope you don't mind me putting this here. I'll never forget you, and I'll dedicate my life to make sure that no one else has to go the way you did. That no one has to lose all hope. I won't let them black out your name. I'll make them see your blue. Your smile, Dylan. And then... |
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| Alex Jones | Dei | Danielle |
| 03/11/1990 - 03/12/2005 Baby, I miss u everyday and wish u didnt do this. I knew u SI and do did i but i jus wish we could've stopped together. I think bout u all the time. That day started out fine we went to HT to get sumthings for my birthday and when we got home you gave me that beautiful ring that i still wear everyday. I just wish i had you now because i need u the most. Ill always love u now and forever. | 10-2-1989 - 3-27-2006 We all hate not having you around now Dei- it was so sudden. You always seemed full of light and you were always hyper. You were the soul of the group and we had no idea what was happening to you. If only we had taken some time to stop, maybe we would have realised. You were so, special, and we will always love you Dei-Dei. | 12/19/85 - 5/18/05 My best friend, words will never describe all the tears I've cried, or the amount of blood that's been shed over your suicide. Knowing I will never in my life time hold your face in my hands, kiss your scars, share pain, or laugh like we are the only ones on earth..makes it hard to carry on. I love you baby girl, and I miss you more every day. I hope you find the peace in death that you could not find in life. All my love. |
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| gidget | My dad Badger | Claudia Amanda |
| 3.19.1992 - 7.12.06 i lvoed you. you were my best friend. my sister. my twin. cassies here with me. she misses you so much. is mom up there.? i know you went to heaven. you were so in touch with god. a lot of people looked up to you. i dont think you knew. taran wanted you to be a youth leader. but that didnt happen. youth group is so wierd without you. i miss you. if only she could of helped you more. i know you told her and th eother one. im proud of you for telling her. well me and cassie are gunna go get clothes for the funeral. its tomaro. love always, your twin sister. gabby and your best friend. cassie. | 13/02/64 - 18/06/06 Hung himself on the 18th June 2006 at age 42. Had been self harming alot before his death and hopefully now his soul will be at rest and happy. I will always love you and you will NEVER be forgotten by me. All my love your daughter and friend for life Emma xxxx | Always loved, never forgotten, forever remembered. We all love you. |
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| Alexial | GRANDMA S. | Nick |
| 04-19-1988 - 04-2-2006 My darling Alexial I love you so much, no matter what other people say you were the one, I only wish I could have been there to hold you as you died. I love you so very much, you are my angel my one my only. I wish I knew why you decided to take that sword and slice your wrists open, I guess i will not know untill we are together once again in heaven. Wait for me my love! | june 10 - june 22, 1999 grandma, you were my best friend the one I looked up to when I need a lift but now you are gone. You took your life. I miss you everyday you not here. even though it has been seven years ago that you been gone I still feel like you are right by me hold me so I dont fell. I think about you everyday. i miss that I can't share my life with you. How turly I have been a women. But I am sure you are on the big cloud up the sky and wish me happy life. I hope that you moved on too. I love you so much. One day we will see each other agian. | 10-6-05 I wrote this just for you Nick, its a song now, and we are going to play it in memory of you.... He held his hopes high, never let Himself down, hiding from the truth, that could bring him to the ground he always stuck it through the rain, even though he couldn't take the pain, he just needs a moment to say that he's okay, but hes not Hes breaking now, his hands are shaking now, he grabs the pills from the shelf, why won't anybody help, he slices the razor through his wrist, he attacks the mirror with bloody fists, he hates what he sees, he can try to change but he'll never be pleased take away the pain, or forever hold your peace He never knew it hurt so bad, until he realized what he had. He goes to school as if it was hell, kids calling him a freak and abandoned, he need help before he kills himself. The pain that he feels is like no other, more diffrent then any other, hes so diffrent from the rest and feels no need to live, he crys every night and just wants to fit in. He holds the gun to his head and wishes for the best pulls the trigger, now hes dead... The police come to see the crime scene, tell each other hes better this way, puts his body in a bag and takes him away A few months pass,we vist his grave a place on my arm that was once covered in scars now is tattooed N.I.K... i throw a rose on his grave and think how it could ever be this way tell him i love him and walk away... |
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| Jarremiah | Arralie | Louise |
| 4/18/88 - 5/16/06 honey, im sorry you felt so much pain that you went this way. you once told me that when i wanted to die, youd be there, stopping me. i remember your words: "you can hate me, you can hurt me, you can kill me. just dont kill yourself or anybody else." ill remember those words as long as i live. i just wished you would have taken youre own advice. me and Cadynce miss you,every day she asks"when is daddy coming home?" and i tell her that youre already there.we love you, and we'll see you in the far beyond. but baby, days ae so hard,with out you. i dont know how ill make it through with out you. we wee supposed to graduate together. we were gonna start a family, remember that? have some kids, a house in so Cal. but youre not in pain anymore. i gladly take youre pain, just so you can be happy again. I Love YOu, Boo. Rest in peace. | 19th January 1990 - 15th July 2005 You didn't deserve for this to happen - I wish it had been me - You relapsed because of me and you didn't deserve it - I'm sorry huni - R.I.P x x x | 30/4/1985 - 21/8/2005 All the pain is over now. Rest in peace, Lou. |
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| "Linnu" | Aunt Sandy | Ali |
| 1986 - 2006 I do not know whether it was an accident or "accident." I do not know why I never was there for you, though I knew you had problems. I do not know. I just keep blaming myself for all this. | Why did you take away your light, you were the only one who could have understood me. They say I am just like you, fat but beautiful, haunted but inspired. I am you, all over again, guide me not to make your same mistakes. | 9-11-1991 - 9-07-2004 Ali I know you never meant it to go this far, you wanted release. I don't blame you, I'm not ashamed, I love you and miss you, and I don't blame you for anything. If only you could have stayed a little longer. I miss you, I love you, I want you to know I always will love you, and you didn't have to try to hide it from me, for I do it to. |
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| Young_mom |
| 150706 Sweet sweet Vivi! Rest in peace little friend! |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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