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In Loving Memory...

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A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury






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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.

At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.

At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.




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mattSerenitySimon


hey guy really miss you your in my prayers


Mayyou always have peace, love and serenity. Serenity, I hope you are at peace now. You are missed


id like to say rip to my uncle simon. I know it wasnt his fault that he did what he did and if he knows what im writing id just like to say i miss you so much and i wish you hadnt have done it.All the family miss you .I wish you was still here to help me through bad times. Theres not a day goes by when i dont think of you love you more than ever emma x x x x x x x
standly croftChrisChris


i know you dident get to see me but i love you for ever and allways love you grand daughter Kayla
01.06.1984 - 28.04.2003

I hope you will find peace.

Miss you dude \m/


I'm sorry you couldn't make it. I keep going back to the day I heard and wish that I could have said something to make the pain go away. Everybody loved you. If only you could've saw that.
MarioJordanroy keith brown
6-january-1982 - 11-june-1998

My best friend ever, who died at the age of 16 while playing around with a knife, just as I do everyday.
Man, I won´t forget you. You`re my light, my candle, my fire.
Puertorriqueño, iré a por ti, haré lo que sea.
1986 - 2003

Jordan died from hanging himself struggeld with SI.i love you so much...you are forever missed..i will see you when i get there.
5/18/2000

he was a great father, uncle and an all around good guy. he took it to extremes on day after his daughters 7th b-day.
although gone in a tragic way(bullett to the head) he is loved and missed

we love u uncle pieface,
love
koty,ashley,brandon,and pieface
AlanaSALLY MORENOLittle Bro


I wish i could have told you I'm sorry and I love you soo much and miss you tons. Especially your smile
06-04-69 - 04-28-03

YOU WERE MY ONLY TRUE FRIEND OF 17 YEARS
YOU NEVER JUDGED ME NORE I YOU. WE MIGHT
NOT HAVE LIKED THE CHOICES THAT WE EACH MADE BUT NO MATTER WHAT WE WHERE ALWAYS
FRIENDS.EVEN THOUGH ARE LIFES TOOK US IN DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS SOME HOW AND FOR SOME REASON WE ALWAYS FOUND EACHOTHER YOU BLESSED ME WITH SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE NEVER HAVE AND THAT IS BEING MY BEST FRIEND I THANK-YOU FOR THIS. THE PAIN THAT I AM FEELING IS UNBELIEVEALBE. THE EMPTINESS IN SIDE IS UNBAREABLE. SEEING YOU LOWERED TO THE GROUND WAS HEART BREAKING KNOWING THERE WAS NOTHING I COULD DO TO BRING YOU BACK I WILL MISS YOU BUT NOT FORGET YOU. I LOVE YOU SALLY YOUR FRIEND NIKKI


You were just 12... What could I have done for you? I miss you. I love you. I wish you were here to call me names and beat me at Nintendo.
-Big Sis
P.S. I beat your game on Zelda, it took forever, but I remembered what you told me. I love you jerkface.
my dearest girlfriendTimberley / Mickyjoshie
6 JANUARY 87 - 28 DECEMBER 2002

i can't believe you're ectually gone. you left behind me and our beautiful baby girl madison. she was only six weeks old never got to know her mummy. i will love and miss u forever. wish i could have understood the pain u were going through. you were just 16 but u still knew what love was. i just wish i could have helped u out my dearest love. i'll never stop thinking of you or never stop loving u. R.I.P Love U Always. YOUR DEARST BOYFRIEND. .X.X.X.X.X.X.X LOVE YOU
20-09-1986 - 15-07-2000

Sheesh, girl, whish I could tell you what I feel... even after all these years... I miss you... I will never forget the I met you... I will always love you...

Forever yours, Sev....
10-30-1986 - 10-31-2002

u were the only one who really took the time to understand me, i thank u for that. i only wish i was there for u that night. i miss u baby, i hope now u r happy and i know ur watching over me. RIP
love yah always,
*shorty*
JimJames MillerMUMMY AND GIRLFRIEND
25th December

We never knew how much you were suffering until the day we got the news that you had hung yourself. You left behind you 2 boys and a beautiful girl that never got the chance to know her daddy. We have told her all about you and how much you loved her. We are all so sorry that we didn't get the chance to help you and we hope that you are happy where you are. I love and miss you every day and one day we will all be with each other together.
5th May - 14th April 2003

We all miss you loads and loads and not a day goe's by when we don't think of you. You were the best Brother,Son,Husband,Father, Grandfather and Great-Grand Father that anyone could have ever wished for. Rest In Peace!


i miss u so much i still can't belive u av actually gone away from us. u left behind a beautiful baby girl madison mai who didn't even get to know her mother. i show her photos of u and tell her thats your mummy shes up with the stars now. shes nearly 1 now. its so hard with out u i love u so much. maddie looks like u with her curly hair and big brown eyes shes the light of my life now that your gone. you were only young when you took your life by overdose and cutting your wrists. i still wish i could have help but come in one day and foundu lieing in a pool of blood with a note saying y u done it. i love you with all my heart and not a day goes by that i don't think of u. well i guess i'll c u when i get there. take care all my love and kisses your boyfriend and daughter love u loadz R.I.P MY LITTLE ANGEL.
patrickMerri Lee ArnoldLinda Kimbrough


pat u died 3 yrs ago and i talk to you every night i always wondered why you did it and no i finally understand i barley new you..now i understand what was going on in your heart
June 30, 1956 - Mar. 17, 2003

I miss you so much my darling daughter but I can not wish you back in the pain you were in. I knew the day you were born you were only loaned to my for a while, but I believed it would last my lifetime. The Lord had a mission for you and when you completed it he took you home. You completed it successfully and your family now attends Church regularly sweetheart so rest in peace and fulfull your next mission for Him just as well. I will always love you and I will miss you till we meet again.
Nov.25, 1948 - June.19, 2002

Mama, it will be year ago-June 19, it seems like yesterday since you left us.
DaveElainaLaura
5th of May 1986 - 20th of May 2003

I can't describe how much I miss you and how much I want you back.I never thought you'd leave me that way - All I can say is that you made me realize how important friendship is.Our friendship knows no distance - I will love you forever.


You were so special, and your life was so hard. Dad, Mom, and I miss you so much. WE LOVE YOU and think about you everyday. You are my inspiration to survive, you are my reason to make sure that I turn out ok. I Love you.


I'm sorry about that night. If I could take it back, I would.
Fabian
17th Feb 1985 - 31st Oct 2002

You knew me better than anyone else, and I knew you the same. I still cannot believe you are gone, I love you and miss you. We bonded over so much, and that was what eventually took you from me.

"I'm not sleeping and you're not here, the thought stops my heart." (Finch-Letters To You)

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Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders

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