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In Loving Memory...

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A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury






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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.

At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.

At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.




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KMTKevinCassie Gilieki


fought as hard as she could to get through it, but just couldnt fight anymore.


i didnt know him personally i dont know how it happened all i know is he took his own life a little more then a month he was a real good friend of a real good friend of mine may you always rest in peace jackie loves you
1987 - 2005

She was loved by so many and recently decided that there was nothing in life worth living for. I cared about her very much and hope she is happy wherever she is now. Love you Cassie.
BrandonVanessaAubrey Roukey
Dec. 30, 2004

i can't believe that you of all the people i know did that. i'm sorry that you had to resort to that. i wish it wouldnt have ended that way. everybody misses you. we all love you too. i hope you're not in any more pain.
Nov. 7, 2004

Although we didn't really know eachother, it hurt me more than anyone will ever know when I found out. At least now you don\'t have so much pain...


A close friend's older brother.

You could've come home, Aub.
WestleyBeckyPerry
July 29, 1988 - November 18, 2003

you were the best person i've ever known, we were both suicidal and living for the other, you gave up and im still holding on. i told you i would keep my word and i will. i love you. your in a better place now. I'll see you soon.


Nobody understands, nobody ever will. That 12 year old girl who ended her life. We all love you Becky, Ste & your parents especially. Wish we could have helped you. Thankyou for blessing us all with Mikayla, and know that we all miss you more than anything. Hope you got the best cloud in heaven, you deserve it darlin.


Everyone misses you and they always will...we will all be with you soon...I love you!
SaritaJoostJohn
1983 - 2003

She was a wonderful person. But she had storms on the inside that manifested themselves on the outside, She took her life in her bedroom. I will always miss her. I wish I had those few weeks back before she died. So I could tell her how much I cared about her. But she is finally at peace and it makes me feel good.
14 may 1990 - 22 november 2004

I wish you were still with us, everyone stil thinks of you. I know you're in a better place now.
October 2, 1984 - September 29, 2004

He killed himself 3 days before his 20th birthday
I will love him Forever
He was a wonderful loving boyfriend and a great friend
He is missed
AdamDavid KimmellStarr
June 15, 1988 - January 10, 2004

Adam
I love you and I miss you. Angel (daughter) misses her dad. It's so hard
to tell her every night that daddy won't be coming home
1985 - 2005

David...I love you so much I can't belive you are gone. I'm sorry that I couldn't help you. I will miss you so much!
1990 - 2005

You really were a star, and we all miss you. I know you were going through some tough times and I will never, ever, forgive myself that I let you take your own life instead of getting help.
BlairRachelMark Dalton
04-25-86 - 01-25-05

Blair was a great person to know. She had her problems though. We went through almost everything together, including SI. She got worse, and slit her wrist; killing herself.


Though you are gone, we love you still.
In your death, we hope you find peace.
You could have chosen life, but you chose death,
and now we live with the pain and regret.


my dear mark killed himself in 98 and till this day i am
still hurting and i am now an s/i and hope to be strong for me and also for mark i love you mark and i always will no matter what and hope one day that me and you can reunite. love always lisa
KyleBill Andersonjezebel


Kyle, though I didn't know you, never met you, or anything like that, you're impact on Annie is profound, and I know that she would want this put up. I'm sorry that things came to what they did, you didn't need to shoot yourself, but know that people love you, they always will


I love you.


i will always love u. and i will live for u.
JoshTiffannelleCraig
1/16/1986 - 1/18/2005

You were my one and only. I loved you, and now you're no longer here for me to love. I blame myself for what you had done. I wish I could go back and change things.
June 26, 1989 - March 6, 2005

To a Wonderful twin sister. If she were here she would help me like I tried to help her. Carpe Noctem and rest in Peace. love Tiffanne
December 26th, 1986 - April 17th, 2004

April 17th 2004 Craig took his own life when he felt nobody loved him
Samantha
October 10th, 1988 - February 4th, 2005

life ends in the most mysterious ways.
i will miss you always baby, may you be at peace

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Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders

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