In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Riley | Kevin Lloyd Collins | Carrie-Anne |
| When God chose it - When He called her home Riley you were the strongest person i knew your mother should have known your true worth. Your loving spirit your compassion for other people, all the while you were alone and misunderstood. everyone you collided with was graced by your underminding presence even if they didn't take notice. you were loved by many people you were, but not enough by one person. your mother is still here pacing her drive way at night with her bottle of vodka in her hand. her face had once had glow but now it is druken grief. i have been in your room once or twice but when i crossed the white panneld door way i sat down and folded my head into my lap sobbing. your room is still the same, all the note books are still scattered on the floor. riley i haven't been to the backyard where you took your last breath. the pain is too great to return to where you departed. i don't know what to do with myself anymore. Riley at your funeral it rained it rained so hard that people who cared enough where being showered by your pain. your mother read some of your writtings that you poured your heart into and found them very real and troubled. i see her every once in a while but she looks so dazed. Riley i can't say enough how much i loved you. i still do and i will. i feel like you are the part of me that is the best. you are my closest friend. i know why you had to end it. it was just too much i know. in some ways i am glad you have peace now. your mother has yet to believe what has happened. Your neighbor still looks out her window when i pass by to see if you are with me. i feel as though you are somewhere but i feel so alone because you are not physically with me. Riley i wake up in the middle of the night and have dreams and i see your face and i just cry and cry. i curl up in my bed and sob for you to come back. you left so many voids and so many legacies. you found your humanity in your writting and you mortality in it also. you had so much talent but you live on through me no matter how much pain i have. i love you so much it is painful Riley please remember me. | July 23, 1960 - January 6, 2005 In loving memory of my father and my best friend, Ilove and miss you daddy and I am sorry that it ended the way that it did. | 28th April 1990 - 30th June 2006 Heya Hunnie Well we was best friends since play school and i will never forget the 1st day at secondary school and we were in biology and you said is that our teacher and i said yes adn then you said OMG he is well fit adn then he turned around and looked at you and you went bright red. well i will never forget all the loving memories i shared with you, i only wished you could have told me about your worries and then we could have delt with them together, well its abit late now isnt it. well ill always love you hunnie bunnie love you lots and lots love your best mate forever Libbie XxX |
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| Victor | Puck | Luci (Lucifer) Murphy |
I didn't know you that well at all, but you always seemed happy..I don't know the whole story of what happened to you last week, but I'm too scared to ask your brother, who I'm sure is miserable enough. I hope things get better for him, and I hope you're still smiling, wherever you are now. I remember seeing you on the 4th of July and thinking 'wow, he's so happy and friendly, just like his brother'...and now, after this has happened, I'm so afraid for Dakota, because he's like my little brother too, and I hate to see him going through this. I hope that if there are guardian angels, you're his. He called me on saturday and told me, in this horrible voice that I was acared to hear coming out of his mouth, that you had died, and he thought it was a drug overdose but wasn't sure. I didn't cry then, but now, I feel like crying like I did yesterday when I saw the dedication your girlfriend made for you. I'm so sad for his family, and him, and especially you. I wish I could have known you better than I did. R.I.P. | I've heard so much about you from my brother, he's proud to have known you, and still quotes the last thing you said to him. I annoyed you in the chat rooms, and wasn't sure why you didn't enjoy my hyperactive bouts of internet-violence. I guess I was just being a stupid kid back then, or I didn't know better or something, but whatever the case, I'm sorry for that day when you were telling me to stop acting the way I was. You left the chat that day, and I didn't know I had offended you. I really am sorry, and I wish I could have known you like my brother did. You've helped him a lot, you know, he's a much happier person since you touched his life. Thanks for helping him, he's carrying on as you told him to. He's helped me plenty of times, and I know it's because of you that he's such a good person today. He could have become someone totally different, but you saved him. Thank you, and Rest in Peace | January 23 1988 - March 9 2005 Luci, you were my hero, you fought to the end to be accepted the way you are, not to be changed by the doctors. You lived your life your way and that's the way its meant to be. Nobody understood how physical pain healed your suffering, but I do. I always will. I miss you Luci and will see you again one day, and this time, we'll be free |
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| Jimmaine Cudaback | Mike Whiteside | Lyndsey lustig |
| August 1985 - August 2006 You will never be forgotten. No one will ever understand the reasoning why. We know that you are now with Aaron. The past 8 months have taken it toll on you and you needed the pain to end. We do have comfort in knowing that you are now at peace and there will be no more pain for you to endure. Take care of each other. Don't ever forget us. I Love You. | January 6, 1991 - March 14, 2005 Mike was the best friend I could've EVER asked for, I'm just so hurt that he's gone...I hope that with the 2 year mark of his leaveing I can finally accept the fact that he's gone and never comming back... | I'm sorry i didn't try to stop it. I know i could've. Forgive me |
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| Cristina Buentello | Ben | Fermin Sanchez |
| 4/09/1980 - 8/31/1995 I'd never have thought id come home from a party and find out that my bff slit her wrists. I miss you so much! | 1993 - 2006 I remember the day I found out. Your Mum phoned and asked for me. She said the note had my name at the top. You bastard... She said you drowned yourself. That was my idea. I went to your funeral. I gave you a rose. Like you said. You looked so thin. It was only then I realised more was wrong. Since then I havn't eaten anything. I've dropped down to 6st. Which is still more that you were. You're hair was nice. Just how you liked it too. Do you remember that day you told me you were a SI? I was so relived I wasn't alone. Hmm. That was a long time ago wasn't it. Not a day goes by when I don't think of you. I miss you so much. I love you even now, even though I don't think you knew it. Hm. You bought me Lipstick Traces for Christmas. And I bought you a screwdriver and about twenty blades. We had fun that day. I will love you forever Ben. I just hope you know that. | 1990 - 2006 I didn't know you...i never talked to you...i didn't hate you like the others..but i wish to say that your death hit me like a rock...No one close to me had done that you were the frist...since i have the chance to put this here...im sorry this happened i hope you're happier wherever you went... kiss... |
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| victoria "vicci" stockhausen | Dinah Carmichael | J H VG |
| 01.12.1984 - 21.08.2006 ou have said to me that one day the pains enough for you you have said to me that one day you cut too deep... at night i lie in my bed and wonder where you are now... i will allways love you and in memory of you i will never kill myself, it doesnt matter how hard my life will be... i will survive... only for you, you allways said i was the stronger one of us both... i accepted your death... hope you can soothe your pain... "follow them all into the darkness in which you were used to dwell" | 9/2/1981 - 9/3/2005 I'm sorry you had to hurt so much before you left. I'm sorry you left. I'm sorry I didn't get to tell you how much I love you one last time. I'm sorry I'm here without you. I miss you. Every day. I'll be seeing you. | 19th June 2004 He was loved by many but he was ultimately my Ghost. Jasper was all that he could be and nobody can ever deny that. You did good, kid. Love, Your Pan |
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| Brandon | Christopher | Michael V. Lebedeff |
| September 29, 2006 We only knew eachother through school, but that should have been enough. You should know that I was there for you, and you didn't have to feel the way you did. It didn't have to end like that, but it did, and now everyone who loved you will have to live with your selfish decision. I love you, but you ruined everything we built with one selfish act. | 1/29/1985 - 7/04/2005 Christopher, Ever since you left,It's been so hard to deal with you not being here. I think about you every day.I wish I would have taken things more seriously, I didn't ever expect this to happen. I never expected a phone call to here that you had hung yourself. I wish there was something I could of done. I would of done anything in my power to help. I love you always and forever. | April 27,1949 - March 19,2002 i will always love you my husband. i still don't know why you shot yourself in the heart. i will always ask that question. i will always love you. i struggle everyday just to put one foot in front of the other to just be able to makeit. i know that your cancer that you had them removing you bladder and prostrate must have been the reason why. i found you when i came home on march 19,2002 but i guess that was what was supposed to be. for you loving wife to find your still body in the shower where you had shot yourself. i will never know. my husband was a good husband and provided well for our family.he will never be forgotten. |
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| Angela Carter | Shane Katen | Steve Hilley |
| 2/13/1980 - 11/3/2000 Angela was my best friend, we have been friends ever since we where 7 years old. She started cutting when she was 13 years old, and then 5 years later she passed away from cutting too deep, after the news of her mothers death in a car accident. God bless. And I love you! | 1987 - 2006 I should have been there for you before it was too late. I'm so sorry. | 12/23/67 - 11/09/94 You left your babies too soon. I only wished I would have picked up the phone. We'll never know if it could have been different. I'm sorry and love you dearly. Marie |
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| Zeb | Claudia Amanda | James Richard Callings |
Though, I did not know you too well. I did know your brothers and you guys were a very loving bunch. You seemed so happy and alive with them - and you carried that gene for a love of bowling as they all did. Why you had to feel like everything was over when you found your wife cheating - you put a gun to your head - I'll never understand - but you forgot the most important thing in your life - your daughter. She loves you and misses you greatly as do your brothers. You live in each and everyone of us and will not be forgotten. *Rest in Peace* | Always, all my love. Tu ahijada | Fuck you, you fucking pussy. We always said we would die together and you fucking leave me here. I hope you eat shit in hell you goddamn bastard. |
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| Paul J. Pietkivitch |
I'm sorry I never got to know you. |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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