In Loving Memory...
A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury
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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.
At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.
At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.
As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.
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| Greta | Leah | Tara |
| June 15, 1998 Took her life on June 15, 1998. Suffered from suicidal thoughts and self-injury. |
March 1980-May 1997 | Unknown "remember her dancing, her smile, that red hair. Not the girl who left us behind" |
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| Chris | Chucky | Rachel |
| June 3, 2000 Will always remember him. At least now I know your not hurting and you are resting. Love you always. |
Unknown Who lived his life to help others. |
January 1, 1981 - July 25, 1998 She will always be the shining light at the end of the tunnel. I miss her so much. |
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| David | Butch | Eddie R. |
| July 16, 1983 - April 10, 1999 He will always be remembered as that last spark of a generation where nothing really mattered. He lived like he died...fast. He didn't deserve to die. He is eternally, just like his role model, Jim Morrison. |
January 22, 1999 A great friend who shot himself in the head. You will always be remembered and missed. I love ya Butch. See ya when I get there. |
1992 My dear cousin - who ended his life (S.I.) in 1992, after years if suffering... May you be at peace. Our memories of you will endure always. |
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| Christina | Scott | Nick |
| April 14, 1985 - December 14, 1999 "Our care should not be to have lived long as to have lived long enough." -Seneca When she took her life, she took a piece of me with her.There isn't a day that goes by, that I don't think of her and of that awful day I found out she was gone forever. I'll miss her always. |
March 1981 - March 2000 To my boyfriend of two years. He took his life on his birthday, and with him, he also took all his secrets. He was the only one who understood me. I wish I could've understood him. Scotty, may you rest in peace, and always remember how much I love you. |
1983 - 2000 To the greatest friend anyone could have. He took his life, and along with that took all his pain. May he rest in peace. |
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| Pam | Mike | Fiona |
| Unknown You had quite a bit of rough times, but you chose the other road. You left behind 2 beautiful boys who love you very much. We miss you and take care. |
October 7, 2000 Not really a loved one...just a guy. Hanged himself on Oct 7, 2000. Wonder what he's doing now...thoughts and prayers; he will be remembered. |
February 20, 1984 - August 16, 1997 We were both suicidal, but you decided to end it all. I will never forget you and we shall meet again. |
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| Dru | Jeremy Gohl | Sean |
| 1983 - 1998 I miss you a lot, I wish you could be with me...so we could do what we always did. I'm scared, and lost without you... I love you, you were the only one I loved...farewell, be well. |
June 12, 1984 - March 1, 2000 You were the best friend anyone could ever ask for and that's why I wail never understand why you did what you did. I'd give anything to have you back with us, but I know that all I have remaining is the great unforgettable memories we made. You will always be in my heart and prayers. I love you and God Bless, Jackie |
Unknown Sean hung himself when he was in 7th grade. He was a friend of many and is dearly missed by several. Rest in peace Sean. |
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| Carrie | LiLith Lynn Richards | Nick |
| Unknown I wish I had known sooner. So beautiful a soul, to be gone. |
Unknown ~ From Best Friend Madie, Jane Dory, Hanson & all who loved you Taylor Hanson once said that, "To the world you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world." To LiLi, Hanson was a world where pain didn't exist. They helped her survive. They may have never known her; may have never even known her name. Yet they knew she was there, and she will remain in their memories forever. And she will remain with me and those who knew her, throughout eternity. "The People you touch/ The way you've touched them/ I hope they've touched you too" -Hanson from "Dying To Be Alive" |
1982 - 2000 To the best boyfriend I ever had who showed me how to trust. I will always remember him the guy with a great personality, and not the guy who left me behind. May he rest in peace. |
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| Ginny | Marshall Edward Phelps | Michael Fricke |
| Unknown I couldn't help you. I wanted to. You wanted to die. I am not mad. I do not hate you. I am sorry that I could not help you. But, I still love you. |
February 8, 1955 - July 26, 1995 I miss you daddy, I will always love you. |
February 17, 1982 - February 10, 1999 A pain never sensed from a soul that would take all mine... |
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| Jeffrey | David | Mark G. |
| Unknown To a great friend/neighbor whom took his life by train in March. |
Unknown I love you always. - your daughter Katie |
1980 - 1998 Tough but alone He took his life with a bullet. If only he'd have known He was far from being alone. |
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| Ian Wilkinson | Taleah | Zeek |
| 2000 He was always there for others, that was his life but he hid his hurt from all of us, his wife and, his child and to the end himself and could never relate to it. How his goodness could lead to him feeling bad - was his energy just a cover up to his reality, we will never know. They say he was crazy and try to put inane reasons to why he did it but we will never know the true reason. |
January, 1983 - April, 1999 You were my best friend. I love you and always will. I miss you tons. |
June 10, 1982 - February 6, 2001 I will forever have you in my heart. Pain took you from us too soon. I love you. See you at the crossroads. |
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| Mark | Karen Stacey | Jared |
| Unknown I'm so sorry, I knew you but at the same time I didn't, you followed me, I ignored you, I'm sorry, I need you. xxx |
August 26, 1959 - August 18, 2001 Taken from us by the hand of a jealous boyfriend - who then took his own life. Karen - we will miss your smile at work... We know that heaven will have the cleanest refrigerators now! We wish we could have said goodbye :( |
Unknown He was one of the nicest and most considerate guys I have ever known. He was always crying out for help, but I didn't know what to do. I tried talking to him about it during a class we had together. I saw the cuts on his arm, I didn't know. I know what he felt now, now that it's too late. I would like to say that I love you Jared, and that we all miss you...I wish we could have done that duet together, this would be the year. |
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| Wade J. | Princess Diana | AJ |
| November 2, 1974 - January 3, 2000 My brother started everything from a very young age: anorexia, self-injury, the journal that he left behind. He suffered for more than ten years, until he took his own life at the age of twenty-six. |
July 1, 1961 - August 31, 1997 Princess Di was killed in an automobile accident in 1997. She will always be remembered, and loved. "The Queen Of Hearts". Who gave hope to self-injurers everywhere...even a princess can suffer in pain. May she rest in peace. |
July 13, 1982 - August 17, 2000 I am sorry that you felt that hurting yourself was the only way out. For many of us, that is the way. But when you come back you will face the same difficulties you left behind. So just be prepared for that. |
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| Stephen | Sarah Hanley | Nicole |
| August 2000 I remember so much about him, but mostly his wrists. But I remember his smile, his laugh, his jokes, and the way he always gave me a hug. |
July 3, 1976 - February 17, 2001 To the girl I never knew... In loving memory of who you were, and what should have been. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers; I wish I'd written back. "Rest In Peace dear girl, your pain is over..." |
December 27, 1983 - December 27, 2000 If only she had heard a loved one say, "How do you do today?" |
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| Fearlyn | Jared | Jon Travis |
| Unknown I wish I had been able to know you better. I miss you now and ever as I know Mark and the others do too. I do understand why you did it. |
July 6, 1976 - December 11, 1998 "One day your child may cry and if you sing this lullabye, then in your heart there will always be a part of me." We miss you, everyday. |
Unknown I knew but I didn't talk. Now i can't help but wonder if I, would you still be here. |
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| Tito | Jessica Cifra | My two cousins | |
| May 20, 1986 - July 13, 2001 I'm so mad at myself for not knowing what to say. Tito was my best friend he sent me a goodbe e-mail before he killed himself, he included a link to this site and told me to look for him that..."you will always find me in the most perverted places"... he always joked. We all love you Tito may you rest in peace. |
Unknown Jess, You took yourself away from those who cared but could not see you blinding pain. If only you talked to someone your live could've been saved. Miss you HEAPS. Love, Chloe, Kayla, Mika and all your friends from school |
2000 I never really knew you both, but I loved you. (suicides) And still do today, I'll never forget either of you even though you never toook the time to know me. |
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| Gloria White | Uncle | Jeff |
| October 21, 1931 - September 4, 1981 This is my mom. She died at 49 in 1981. I have missed her every day since. I hope to be reunited with Christ when I am taken home. |
Unknown He was my uncle, I loved him and I was shocked when I found out he had shot himself. He will always be in my mind, and sometimes when I see dreamcatchers...I remember him and his funeral and how he always wanted me to be happy. |
Unknown he was a good friend to me for most of my life. he hung himself on his closet door last year. may the gods take care of him now. (PS: jeff, ill see you there, wait for me. i wont let my black tears fall.) |
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| Stephen | David Leblanc | Irene Miller | |
| Unknown - September 2002 I barely knew you, but you still mean more than you know. |
Unknown i miss you sooo much and although you're gone i respect your decision to kill yourself. i guess that death is better than long time depression and pain..i'll see you soon... Always+Forever Your Loving Niece Caitie |
Unknown I miss you so much and I only wish I could have told you this alot more than I did. You're the only one I loved back then and I only hope you know just how much I did and still do actually love you. Goodbye aunty, I love you, past, present and future. Stephanie |
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| Abi | Evelyn | Amanda Pierce's Sister | |
| Unknown I wish i could have known you better. We weren't the best of friends, but I still cry for you. You were the wake up call that I needed. I love you. |
Unknown we miss you |
1982 - December 2002 We all miss you. Including those of us who did not ever know you. Hopefully you rest in peace now, and things will be better for you. We pray for your family that they can move on knowing that you're still here for them. *Amanda- Everything will be ok someday, it will hurt for a while, but your sister is at peace. God Bless you. |
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| lisa | my dearest and best friend andi | Lorena's brother | |
| 11/1/81 - in hospital we love you lisa! |
21.10.1982 - 15.12.2002 We shared dreams like all best friends, bloodbrothers at the age of ten, we lived reckless,he paid the price, why, why did he have to die? It still hurts me to this day, am I selfish for feeling this way, I know, he's an angel now, together we'll be sometime... Dear Andi... you are the best thing I ever had and I will never forget you. You were my air to breathe... my everything! In the end, we'll be together again! ~forever in love~ ~forever yours~ SONJA |
Unknown I never knew him but I saw the pain it caused the family! It is a sad fact... it has been a little more than a year and it is Jan. 2003! Please get help! |
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| Nancy L. Thompson | Nick | Betty Jean Hardy |
| Unknown - 1-9-03 Nancy, we will miss you dearly. You were a great wife to your husband, John, and a great mother to your two children, Kyle and Amber. You were a loving person to family and friends. We know you're in a safe place with Jesus now. You will be in our hearts forever. |
October 22, 2001 I didn't know. I came one year to late. People say you were such a great guy. You make a difference in my life even though I didn't know you. Rest In Peace |
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- 11-06-02 She was so gifted yet life gave her so much pain, she cut away at the pain but it could kill her. |
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| Tanya Sindeband | Hutton | Clare |
| 1979 - September 1st, 2002 Tanya was a beautiful person, inside and out who struggled until the very end. She was talented and very funny and could put a smile on my face any time I was down. She is being thought of constantly. |
8/7/1985 - 2/5/2002 Hutton- you're gone out my life but never out my heart, I love you so much it hurts. I'm so empty without you! Without you all I feel is darkness and pain... I love you! xXx I will soon join you, my love, the blood that drips from my vert flesh is my trapped tears... the tears for you |
Unknown Clare, you left us all behind that night. I'm so sorry that it came to this, and I hope maybe one day you can come back to us. I wish I could have helped you the way you did me. I love you. |
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| Steve | Mario | Shema |
| April 10, 2002 Your strong hands, your broad shoulders, your dad's eyes, your beautiful smile, your gentle laugh, your big bear hugs will all be missed. You left too soon and I miss you so much. I love you. |
1958 - August 1992 i miss you dad... i wish you were here. but im still here after ten years wanting to be with you.i still ask why. Why did you leave me behind... now all i want is to be with you...i love you dad. even though herion overdose was your soothing method. i will always love you and miss you. "bitter irony bites me yet again... you have been gone for 10 years and i am only 13. i never got to know you which makes it harder, to figure out why. but you have infected me with a poison that you took to your death... it was as if we were sharing needles and i was poisoned with your disease." Much love - your daughter |
1999 She was the beautiful petite muslim punk-rock girl. She will never be replaced |
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| Mr. Walton | Andrea Evelyn | Adam | |
| Unknown Was a good teacher and a better man. May he rest in Peace always. |
January, 1984 - March 30, 2002 Andrea, I loved you. You were my best friend. Never have I had a friend who knew what I was going through like you did. We shared our stories of self-injury together and laughed, but only because we were tired of the pain and seriousness of it all. I'll never forget the feeling I felt when I was told you died, and the last time I saw you alive. You were a beautiful person Andrea, despite the anorexia and the SIing. Nothing could stop making your eyes glow bright when something pleased you. I miss you. |
Unknownmy best friend, died august 6, 2000.. took a gun to his head. |
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| Richey James Edwards | Ben | garret evans |
| December 22, 1967 - unknown (went missing February 1, 1995) Whether you chose to go by 'Richey James' or 'Richey Manic', we always knew who you were and what you were for. People called you vulgar for displaying your self-hate, and we called you generous for sharing it and teaching us just how hard it can be. We suffer just like you did. Some more and some less, but we all know how it is. We've suffered for you and because of you. Most important of all, we've suffered with you. The world stopped turning for us when you ran off that February day. We take a few hours every year on that day to mourn your loss. Not because you were a celebrity and it was our duty as loyal fans, but because we respect and miss you. You've made your mark, Richey. You've made your mark on everyone who touched the NME and on us, and we love you for it. |
Unknown Ben, I didn't know you very well, but you were a great guy. You were my cuz! I love you I miss you.. I feel your pain |
UnknownMay my heart be ever thine; Fill my soul with love devine; I would daily walk with Thee; That more like Jesus I might be. Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to keep That if I sleep or if I wake, I may be Thine, for Jesus' sake. |
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| Erin | Jason Malaney | Elizabeth | |
| April 9th, 1984 - April 1st, 2001 That day marked my first trip to the hospital because i tried to kill myself. Since then i have tried to become a new person and have tried to stop by seeing people that will help my though it all. Hopefully my fight against self mutilation will come to an end one day and hopefully not in death. Wish me luck. |
23rd December 2001 I will always remember you for the joy you brought into my life and the times you were always there for me. May you now rest in peace and not hurt anymore x x x x |
Unknown You were the best friend I ever had, my soulmate, my strength, and my inspiration. I still miss you each and every day, with pain just as new as the day you left me. |
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| Heather V. | Brittani | Squiddie | |
| 1984 - 1999 She was my best friend, one day I went to pick her up for school...her little sister, who was 5 at the time, answered the door and told me, "Heather ain't wakin' up." I went to Heather's room, there she was. The minute I saw her, I broke down in tears. Later the parametics said she OD'd. Heather...I love you always and forever. Megs |
Unknown My best friend since the 5th grade. We unknowingly started together. But she was weak and couldn't keep control. One day it just went too far. My bedroom carpet is still stained with her blood. I love you and will continue on for you.... |
08/06/89 - 25/07/02 Now your soul, is gone. We deeply miss you, may you rest in peace. |
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| Peter S. | John Walters | ray b aka spike | |
| 17th March 1986 - 17th December 1999 You were my best friend, my sun, my rain, my everything, I miss you more then words can say, you helped me so much with my problems and didn't take enough of your own, I am sorry, good bye. I love you Pete. Kristin |
5-14-38 - 09-21-02 You will be missed dearly. You were a great man and loved very much. |
01/08/1983 - 09/25/2002 he died by si, he was a great friend to all we all miss him, like the way he us feel the way he made his cars look run but he would always make you happy to know him we'll all miss you RIP we'll so you on the other side we all love you man |
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| Chella | My Identical Sister | Sarah | |
| Unknown Carrie "Machelle" Slatten died on March 31st 2002, at 18. She took her own life and she is sorely missed. She was my best friend and my soulmate; she had the biggest capacity to love that I have ever seen - I love ya Chella. |
04-16-1985 - 09-16-02 You cut the wrong place on your arm and was unable to get help now you're gone and i miss ya! When i look in the mirror i see you and imagine you're really her and i'm the one gone! I'm trying to stop si but it's hard without you. I'll alaways love ya, Sissy(ur identical sister and best friend) |
02/09/88 - 04/08/2000 Sarah was my best friend in the whole world, I wish she would have spoken to me maybeI could have saved her. I will always remember you,you will always be in my heart. xxxxx |
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| Eve | Vincent | Alex |
| 1980 - 2002 I know you couldn't help it. And that you tried. Thank you for understanding and may your spirit rest in peace. |
Unknown They silenced you but I still remember the words you wrote to me, it was a Lene Marlene'song: Heaven is a place nearby so i won't be so faraway and when you'll try to look for me, maybe you'll find me someday, heaven is a place nearby so thet's no need to say goodbye I wanna ask you not to cry I'll always be by your side" |
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| Jaqueline | Nick | Linda Diane Sanders Miracle |
| 13.06.1985 - 13.06.2001 Don't forget us my darling... i love you! |
1984 - 1-20-1999 "As Nick grew older, the obstacles in his life were no longer fences or walla or trees. And the young lion cub knew not which predators to avoid. His curiosity and fearless attitude blinded him from the true dangers that lay in wait for him around every corner and in the deepest part of his heart"- his obituary He was only 14 and only knew how to show his fun loving, happy side, he didnt know how to deal with the emotions after his father died. He being trying self-injury and drugs to numb his pain threatening suicide. No one that knew took him seriously or knew how to help him. I realize he wasn't the only one like that hiding the pain and problems with a smile. I just wish he didn't have to die befor we could learn how serious depression can be. |
October 7, 1953 - September 7, 2000 Mom, not a day passes that you do not cross my mind. I love and miss you. You really were a "miracle" to me. I love you and miss you more than words could ever explain. Your baby, Heather |
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| Dan | Machelle (Chella) | Ruth | |
| Unknown - May 14, 2001, Monday We still love you and we always will. Why did you do what you did? I miss you. They do, too. |
December 19, 1983 - March 31, 2002 Chella was my best friend for a long time and I loved her like a sister. we both self injured. Sometimes we even compared stories. She left behind a beautiful daughter, a girlfriend, and many concerned friends. Certainly, an angel has returned to heaven. |
Unknown i wish i could have saved you... i'm sorry i wasn't able to. you are missed dearly and it was such a shame you aren't here today to experience the happiness you could have had. |
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| Adam | Christopher andd Mary Kopf | Chris A. |
| Unknown So much pain.... I wish i could have helped you more, but i know that you are safe now, with no more pain. |
October 1999 Who put a bullet thru his wife and them himself. Dearest Uncle, I forgive you, even if no one else can. You were my hero, my Perfect Man. I always said I would marry a man like you. I still will. You begged for help, no one listened. I am sorry I was too young and ignorant to come to your rescue. I love you and miss you. I hope you find the peace denied to you here. |
Aug. 16, 1982 - Sept. 5, 2000 My best friend. Me and him were close as husband and wife. He shot himself. In front of me. He struggled with SI until one day he gave up. He was tired of being alone and misunderstood. He was too old for me and we couldn't see each other. I remember the last words he said to me "...Remember, Kat, I always loved you... And one day, We will be together... Forever... No one to tell us whats right or wrong... But until that day, I want you to get married, have a better life than i would of had..." After that, I started to cut myself. I want to join him someday, until the time is right. I love you Chris. |
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| Tobi | Tarah M.G. | Renata |
| 24.11.1983 - 14.11.2001 ...but to look for heaven is to live here in hell... |
Unknown I wish i had've met you, instead all i hear is stories, from your wonderful son you left behind. I hope now that you are gone, your pain has gone to. May you rest in peace, painlessly. |
1985 - Feb. 24th, 2002 She was a great friend, and helped me so many times. I miss her. God took back his beautiful Angel. |
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| Justin | Corah | Fernando MuÑoz |
| 3-11-84 - 5-13-01 You will be forever missed by me as well as your close friends... I love you. ~Your Loving Sis~ Leah |
December 15, 1984 - December 15, 2001 "Love till your heart aches Dance till your feet fall Scream till you have no voice Cut till you swim in blood" we miss you corah! |
5/21/63 - 11/15/98 A son, a husband and a Father that will never be forgotten. |
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| Ann | Phe | Louis |
| 1987 - 2001 A walking Engima. Always thoughful, deep, and beatiful in you own way. Though I miss you, it soothes me to know that you are resting now, all across the Great Lakes of which you loved so much. I will always remember your eyes. Always mixed with emotion; pain, fear, hate, love, and compassion. To call you my girlfriend is an insult. You were my lover, my breath and my life. My love Always, N |
March 2001 so touched by tragedy, cut short to quickly. i never knew you well, but you have made me who i am today. i hope where ever you rest now it is in less tumoil then before. you will forever be in my thoughts |
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| Lacey Waters | Carl Ray Speegle | Nathan S. |
| 1986 - 2001 To the girl I never knew "I didnt even know you, but you touched my heart It is ashamed that we did have to part." |
April 20, 2002 Not A Day goes by that I don't think of you. Just to understand would make it much easier.I hope you found you peace in heaven.You will be truly missed by many! |
12-31-85 - 10-9-01 i loved you and i let you rest in peace |
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| Kat | Misti | riel |
| July 25,1986 - April 1, 2000 we all loved you so much you were like family to me , i miss you and i never got to say bye and tell you how much you mean to me and that i love you so much today is 4/1/02 you died on 4/1/00... and i miss you so much you took your life so early if you could of only realized how much you were loved and how much you contributed to all of us and see... oh... one day sweet kat i know that i will see you in heaven because you were a child of christ just as i was i miss you so much i understand why you did it but i will always miss you til we meet again i love you and miss you very much erin and maybe other who read this who are thinking of taking there life to you all i tell you just read what all of us say about how much these people mean... everyone is loved |
May 3, 1983 - July 3, 1997 she was a beautiful person with a wonderful and caring heart. she only ever loved others. she killed herself one night while cutting her wrist. she always said she would never kill herself that that was not what she wanted that she just cut herself. that day she cut too deep. she will always be in my heart. I will always love her. |
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| Andrea White | Teresa | Penny Crawley |
| May 16, 1952 - Feb 18, 1991 Mom, you are truly a blessed angel. I miss you and see you in B's smile. You would be proud! I will see you again. Love your daughter and grandkids, EJC, BEC+BCC |
Unknown She was an amazing woman and left behind two amazing children. I hope they never begrudge her what she did. |
June 1969 - September 2001 Your certain, secret smile Radiating through a golden ocean Where playful dolphins sing I hope you've found your heaven And all the pain is over Love and hugs always Lynn |
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| Katie Dilks | Skyler Davis | Anja |
| April 5, 1984 - April 5, 2002 Katie will always be remembered. She never knew how much anyone loved her. We never told her. I'm sorry Katie. I'll miss you always. God please forgive us. |
Unknown - 4/24/02 I didn't know you... but you changed my life dramatically... i wanted to die... i even tried commiting suicide... but after hearing about what happened to you... my mind has changed a little. now i'm not so sure i want to die! Thank you! |
February 9, 1985 - May 19, 2001 i wish i could have known you better, but i love you none the less. rest in peace. |
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| Tracy | Brandon | Tammy |
| Unknown So colourful, like a rainbow. your life was cut short, and it wasnt fair. We miss and love you always. |
Unknown You never know what you've got till you loose it and once you do you can never get it back. Brandon I love you Jessica |
Unknown - January, 2001 Tammy was so understanding and helped so many people suffering from SI. She lost her own battle with Depression in January of 2001. In honor of her memory, Tammy Day was formed to educate people about Suicide, Depression, and SI. (You can look us up on Yahoo Groups.) We all miss Tammy a great deal, and not a day goes by when we do not think of her. She was an extraordinary young woman who got a bad deal in life. We can only hope that she has found some peace at last. |
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| Kevin David Cole | Coal | Bobby Orr |
| Unknown we love you Wookmaster... |
February 15, 1983 - December 23, 1997 You never My boyfriend of four years. He and I understood each other so perfectly well, he was the only person that knew me like I truly am. The day he killed himself was the day I lost myself and everything I loved and knew. |
Unknown I never really knew you. You were the quiet one in class who was nice to everyone, regardless of who their friends were or how much moeny they had. Such a sad ending to such a wonderful person with such troubles inside. I wonder if we could have ever reached you. The memories we had of you will always live on. |
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| Josh Dexter Goldberg | David | Gary |
| April 4, 1983 - March 10, 2002 Dex, we love you so much. We enjoyed your short time in our presence. Your face, your gargoyles, robocop.. dex, although you didn't get the girls and you were into the guys, we still liked you.. even though your side of the room was a disaster area and you were so wierd looking, we really liked you and miss you terribly. God speed, Dexter! |
May 30, 1983 - January 20, 2002 He cut himself to death because he had leukemia and knew it was his way out.I have his habit but I'll never blame it on him because he loved me as much as I love him. L'Amour Toujours David, Your forever loving sister, Michelle |
1960 - 2001 Dad I love you so much. The day I found out you were gone... well it stole the sun from my heart. I know that was your only way out, you didn't want to live this life and I don't blame you one little bit. I wish it was different, you were stripped off dignity but your at peace now. You were only 41. Far too young to go. I'll see you soon Daddy, it's a promise. |
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| Nicola | Rebecca | John Briza |
| Suicided Feb 2001. Aged 18. |
9/12/83 - 2/9/02 I love you and I always will. |
October 26, 1982 - July 25, 2000 i never told you how much i loved you and for that im sorry seeing that now its too late, your gone. i miss you more then ever and think of you every day. love you always~ your lil sister, katie |
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| Mary-Lynn | Jennifer | Jermey |
| August, 20, 1986 - January, 6, 2002 Although she was a happy girl, she lived in a different world! She hungs herself at her fathers birthday, never will I forget the date... She was my best Friend and my sister, too... I hope, that she lives now in a world, where she feels better... Don't forget, my little angel: I will always love you... R.I.P |
1984 - 2000 She took her life on Christmas day and it no longer means what it used to, but a day of sorrow and pain. May you Rest in Peace. With love always you will never be forgotten. |
Unknown - 1990 jeremy was only 15 when he died. he committed sucide. he shot himself on his front porch. he was my best friend and now he is my guardian angel. i am only 15 but i will never forgot jermey. he is apart of me and my heart. R.I.P JEREMEY I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU ... I LOVE YOU FOREVER |
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| Christina | Michelle Kristine Weaver | Tiina |
| Unknown "You can't fight the tears that ain't coming, or the moment of truth in your lies. When everything feels like the movies, you bleed just to know you're alive." I love you. |
November 27th, 1979 - July 21st, 2001 I love you sis, and I wish I would have been able to help you. You always got worried when I cut myself, but you never told me you thought of suicide. I will always love you. I promise to take care of the baby, until the day I die. We all love you and miss you. I know Jason does, and Nichole and Kim and Denise and Tara and Bonnie and all of us. Mom and Dad, and Tiny most of all. "One more day, one more time... one more sunset baby, I'd be satisfied, but then again, I know what it would do... leave me wishing still for one more day with you." "Cuz there's holes in the floor of heaven, and her tears are pouring down.. that how I know she's watching, wishing she could be here now.. And sometimes when I'm lonely, I remember she can see, cuz there's holes in the floor of heaven and she's watching over you and me" |
1983 - 1999 "To my Bambi, my beautiful stranger in the rain... When I met you I knew it would be okay. Until the day I got your letter." "It's my time to say goodbye, I've changed my mind and you're never gonna stop me..." [Ultra: The Right Time] |
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| Lily | Eric | Erin Lizzy |
| Unknown To the beautiful girl who's time came too soon. When you took your life that fateful night you fulfilled your dreams and freed your tormented soul. i know you still smile down on me to this day, i know i still smile up at you. R.I.P forever. ill see you soon. |
July 10th, 1982 - December 24th, 2001 I never wanted you to be another name among many. I love you, miss you, and will never understand why. "Beyond the door, there's peace I'm sure." |
Unknown - 10/18/2001 we will always love you, we just wish you would have known that before. |
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| Dove | Justin | Chris |
| Unknown - 20/01/2000 I hope your flying freely now. We all miss you. |
March 11, 1984 - May 13, 2001 My brother dealt with depression for the better part of his life and self-injury for the last 3 years of his life. He lit himself on fire April 25 last year and died on Mother's Day. He never knew how much he meant to me and so many others. |
Unknown Sadder than we ever knew. |
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| Jennifer | Lyam Wihelm | Kurt |
| January 31, 1976 - March 22, 1994 My "sister", my best friend, I will never forget you. |
1983 - 2001 A great singer, the biggest Manson and Cradle of Filth fan I ever knew. He had a beautiful girlfriend, Alisa, as well. |
1967 - 1994 Remembering you makes me cry, but I remember you every day- and I will for the rest of my life. I love you. |
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| Jenna | Sally | Sarah |
| Unknown Too bad you had to go... you were so strong and so nice when you were here. I hope everything is easier for you now. |
23.3.1986 - 29.11.2001 I hope you don't hurt anymore. |
5/2/84 - 6/13/00 she was beautiful, but she never realized it. driven to si because of the disownment of her father, she will always be remembered as the one who could make us laugh through all of her pain. |
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| Jenny | Robbie Paquin | My angel Vicki |
| Feb. 12, 1987 - Nov. 7, 2001 You were there for me when I needed you. I wish I could have helped you more than I did. I loved you, I will always love you...Jenn is superior. Jenny took her own life after months of dealing with s.i. suicidal tendencies and drug abuse |
Unknown it's been many years now... but i still think of you often... the pain that you must have felt, i only wish i had been more observant... for this i will always be sorry... |
October 4, 1984 - February 17, 1998 "And blood runs crimson from open veins.. tears washing away the endless pain..she falls to the white snow below..dying in a place I cannot go." I will always remember my Vicki, my best friend who died in my arms on that cold winter night. I missed you excruciatingly when I couldn't die too, I missed you painfully each time when I needed your laugh, but most of all I missed you when I realized you'd never come back again. "My angel lifted her wings and flew to heaven... I miss you with each passing breath... Goodnight Sweetheart... until we meet again." |
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| Angelique | Tanya | Geoff |
| April 23, 1983 - June 9, 1999 My heart aches for you. Each day that passes I miss you more. Your pain is over now, may you rest in peace. I will never forget you. I love you... Always and Forever. |
November 2000 She will never know the impact she had on me. |
May 12, 1970 - February 11, 2001 Geoff, you were my brother and I hardly knew you. But I love you and you will forever have a place in my heart. Thank you for your beautiful music and the way that you touched so many lives around you. We will miss you. |
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| Emil | Tommy | Becky Haines |
| Unknown You were our bestest friend You said you would be there until forever Forever has just ended. We will miss you dearly our bestest friend. I never really knew you, did I? Thank you for everything you did for me. I will always think of you, and thank God that I knew you. Emil, I promise, if we had known, we would have cared. Always loved and always remembered. |
October 31, 1980 - March 17, 2000 Tommy was kind to the world that brought him pain. He was truly an angel. His smile could've healed the world. He spent most of his time praying for others. He lived for God, but one day I woke up to find that he had gone, just as he claimed God had from his life. He left a note, but I never go to read it. If only I had known. I loved him, but never had the courage to tell him. I will continue my life carrying on his spirit. I will never love someone as much as I did Tommy. |
Unknown i didnt know you that well but i will always remember the day you chose to go. just wanted to place a message to say that i understand that you had had enough. hope you are in peace now. |
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| Paula | Levi | Bernadette |
| Unknown She was always the one everyone talked about if only they knew what she knew all her pain and suffering and the bipolar that was controlling her I still wonder what was going through her mind as she jumped that day, and what they could have done to help. |
Unknown Beloved, Greatly Missed, Enricher of Life. |
Unknown Bernie- No one understood how much pain you were feeling, you tried to tell us, but we couldn't help you. I hope that you are resting peacefully, reunited with your sister Diane, who took her life only a few months before you left. I miss you so much. |
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| Micheal | Anna | Colin |
| March 1, 1960 - March 1, 1990 I miss you Daddy and now your traits have passed on to me. But i will not go the way you did, with a bullet in my head. I will get over your death and my injurous behaviors. Love You Always, Your Daughter, Kyrstin |
April 25, 1972 - April 24, 1988 We loved you sweetheart, I'm sorry no one understood you. I wish I had known. We are all glad we could know you and we'll remember forever, the beauty of your short life. Much Love, Elizabeth - Mom |
1/16/87 - 10/08/01 Colin, I love you, and you were an awesome person. Truly one of the nicest people I have ever met. I don't understand why you hanged yourself. I didn't even believe it when I heard, but now I know it's true. It makes my heart ache thinking of what tortured you so badly you ended your life. Rest in Peace, I love you. |
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| Tamaya | Clarence Taylor | Maggie |
| 20-2-1983 - 3-10-2001 You might be gone, but you spirit lives on within me. |
October 27, Unknown - February 12, 2000 popa i hope you now we miss you a lot I hope you are happy in heaven with the angels I love you very much an will never for get you love monica. |
1984 - 1997 one of the best pepole anyone could have known. |
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| Aimee Dunker | Sheena | Tanya |
| Unknown she was always the best of friends. she was always there no mattter how bad she was treated. her friendship will sorely be missed. |
Unknown The seasons are changing and I miss you now more then I ever thought I would. One week after we lost Geschua, you jumped off that bridge and I thought my heart would stop. Every time I drive under a bridge I think of you. I hope that now you are safe and feel loved. Know that we all miss you here and wish you could come back to us. |
Unknown - November 1999 She came to the bulletin board seeking help shortly before her death. It was sadly too little too late. She will never know how she touched me, but she won't be forgotton. |
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| Unknown nina always made me 'better' when i wanted to just die..we both had been cutters and i still am..but that one day she took it too far... i love you nina and i will never forget you... |
Credits
Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders
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