"For my nymphet I needed a diminutive with a lyrical lilt to it. One of the most limpid and luminous letters is `L.' The suffix `-ita' has a lot of Latin tenderness, and this I required too. Hence: Lolita. However, it should not be pronounced as ... most Americans pronounce it: Low-lee-ta, with a heavy, clammy `L' and a long `O.' No, the first syllable should be as in `lollipop,' the `L' liquid and delicate, the `lee' not too sharp. Spaniards and Italians pronounce it, of course, with exactly the necessary note of archness and caress. Another consideration was the welcome murmur of its source name, the fountain name: those roses and tears in `Dolores'. My little girl's heart-rending fate had to be taken into account together with the cuteness and limpidity. Dolores also provided her with another, plainer, more familiar and infantile diminutive: Dolly, which went nicely with the surname `Haze,' where Irish mists blend with a German bunny---I mean a small German hare."
My name is Gabrielle and I am twenty-eight years old. I began to self-injure at age fifteen -- so nearly thirteen years -- minus a two year period. This website was made to let self-injurers know that they are not alone and to help their friends and family learn more about self-injury and how it affects their loved one.