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I don't know what to do..
When i was 12 my dad died, i was closest to him than my mum.
Its now me my mum and my sister. I started cutting when i was 12 and carried up till the age of 16. I'm now 18, I started cutting again recently.
I don't know what to do i just started uni and if they find out i might get kicked of the course for being 'unstable' as im training to be a nurse.
I have boyfriend of nearly 2 years. He hates it and i'm terrified of losing him, as he is all I've got, he's the only person i can talk to.
My mum and sister wont listen to me. So i talked to my cousin she's a psychiatrist, i didn't tell her I cut, but i told her how down I was always feeling, she started to suggest depression, anxiety and paranoia. After a while i got fed up talking about myself and everything got brushed under the carpet.
I'm scared I don't want to cut, I don't want to lose my boyfriend and i can't go to a GP because my uni will find out. My mum and sister are never here and when my boyfriend isn't here I just get lonely.
I feel like im going crazy.
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hey im jane and im 15 years
8 months () (Permalink)hey im jane and im 15 years old i dont know where to start i i just hope you can help me im facin a lot of problems in my life with my family and everyone i just feel like no one can get me :( i feel terebole my parents they suck im 15 they dont let me hang out with my friends even i dont have friends on my nabor im always sitting on my TV watchin , i felt loney and ugly i started cutting my self and now i feel so insane 2 days ago i had a big fight with my family and i almost kill my self i dont know i dont even have friends so please if you can help me it gonna be the amazing thin happened in my life
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I'm ashamed to say i have cut recently. i really want some help. Does anyone know a better way of coping?
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take your anger out on paper
8 months () (Permalink)take your anger out on paper e.g tear it up in pieces
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There are plenty of better
8 months () (Permalink)There are plenty of better ways of coping like talking with somebody who can help or at least listen. Or expressing your feelings in creative ways of expression like writing, drawing, music, singing, etc. There's distractions like on the list on the website and floating around on other websites. There's self-care that's soothing like taking a bath or doing something kind for yourself.
Now, to be blunt, there's really nothing that is not self-destructive that will replace self-injury but it can help make the uncomfortable moments more bearable. There will definitely be uncomfortable and unhappy moments but getting through the desire to self-injure is worth it, I think.
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i need to talk to someone
8 months () (Permalink)hello
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heyyyy im jane and im 15 how
8 months () (Permalink)heyyyy im jane and im 15 how old are you ?::)
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It's good to talk it out. Messgae me anytime if possible.
Much love
Dani
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i hev no one to talk to personally and if u cut u know i cant tell my mom or dad im so confused im in so much pain
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i know cutting ur self it
8 months () (Permalink)i know cutting ur self it hurts me 2 my mom and dad dont know bout me cutting my self
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are you ok?
9 months () (Permalink)are you ok?
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Your very inconsiderate, you
9 months () (Permalink)Your very inconsiderate, you act like it's something to be proud of.
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does it count?
9 months () (Permalink)I cut myself using a pencil, but it never bleeds. Sometimes i try using scissors, but it never bleeds too. Does it count as cutting even it doesn't bleed?
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yes it counts. cutting is
8 months () (Permalink)yes it counts. cutting is cutting. no matter if theres blood or not.
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Yes, it does. Self-injury isn
9 months () (Permalink)Yes, it does. Self-injury isn't about how much (if any) blood is drawn. It's about deliberately hurting yourself.
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