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In Loving Memory

A Memorial for All Who Have Died Struggling with Self-Injury

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At the rising of the sun and at its going down,
We remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of Winter,
We remember them.

At the opening of buds and in the rebirth of Spring,
We remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of Summer,
We remember them.

At the rustling of leaves and the beauty of Autumn,
We remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
We remember them
When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
We remember them.

As long as we live, they too shall live,
for they are a part of us, as we remember them.

Jackson

Dude! why did you do this?! we could've worked everything out!
all of us would've helped you through the tough times, if you just talked to us!
We'll all miss you and you'll be forever remembered, by us.. your friends, your family, your fans
and we will always have a spot for you on the clan..
We'll miss you,, I'll miss you..
Rest in Peace now.. don't worry anymore, be happy now..

In Loving Memory... Information
Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Mon, 1994-09-26 - Tue, 2009-07-07

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hannah.

i wish the real hannah was still here. please come back to me.

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Trisha Lynn Madsen

Trisha was my sister, though I barely knew her. My entire life she lived in Sioux City and I lived in Omaha. She suffered from severe depression and was on many medications. Too many times she tried to drive off a cliff, literally, while drinking. Drinking was her only ascape and it was her end. She ended her life by taking an entire bottle of depression medicine, supposedly you weren't supposed to be able to OD on it, but she took it with lots of alchohol. Her mom found face down on their dining room floor. She was smart and outgoing but took after our dad, like I do, and struggle with anger problems and depression. Please remember my sister.

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Sun, 1982-08-08 - Tue, 2005-10-04

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stephen Quinn

Why us Stephen
Why do we have to go through this pain
Its like looking for a rainbow when there is no rain

I still try and get to grips with it all Stephen
And no now that you’ll never be there
When I say those words “I do”
With flowers in my hair

Stephen im going to miss you
You’ve always been there
You’ve made me laugh and made me smile
And now its just not fair

Thank you so much Stephen
I hope you now have a better life
I just wish you could stick around
So I wont miss seeing your face

And now that your gone Stephen I just don’t know what to do
I miss seeing your face
And I miss seeing you

Please come and visit us Stephen
At least like once in a while
Just remember 1 thing I love you and always will

You meant the world to me Stephen
And you no you still do
Just remember I miss you
And I no you miss me too.!!!!! xx

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Elliott

A young boy 10 or so
Gets ready to leave
God says its time to go
No chance to give any hugs good buy smiles or laughs even cries
The days are long and the nights longer
Confusion's hold has embraced my sad soul
Sitting there all alone why we deserved this it wasn’t his time to go
Loving a heart such as mine brings danger
And I scream silently knowing this truth
He slipped away this time
Embracing his way to heaven as he goes
Such a young soul
Such a short life hopefully time in heaven will put this write
Back to skating and not getting hurt
No hitting the grass or falling on dirt
So this is just my poem good by
To a loved young boy who made me cry
I hate to say it but you got to my heart
AS I toss and turn my body ackes
If im going through this what’s Ayesha like I wouldn’t dread to think I no I wouldn’t be write
So we man im here to night to say a proper good by
Don’t be to cheeky or make people cry
So I love you loads
Smelliott Elliott my last good bye..X

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Megan

I know why you did it.
The abuse was too much.
I shared the beatings with you.
The sexual assaults too.
I know why you did it.
I don't blame you at all.
I just miss you.
I miss you here with me.
Every second of the day.
I miss your Kool-aid colored hair
I miss your sweet voice with it's faint Yittish twang
I miss your graceful soft stance
and a number of things
Four years since I held you
your warmth protecting me
I miss you my Megan.
My love.
My heart.
My soul.
Every breath I take is for you.

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Thu, 1989-09-21 - Mon, 2005-05-23

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Steve

You were my best friend and the closest person I ever had. When you left this world I wanted to join you, but I continue to live on. I miss you, I love you, I wish you were here.

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Fri, 1990-08-24 - Tue, 2006-02-14

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Violet "Violin"

You were my Partner in crime. I loved you. Since day one. I miss the days you and me would use pipe bombs in on your mothers farm on the hay and run around in the falling hay. I miss your creative ideas and the abstract soul you had. Who would have thought it went this far. and who would have thought i was there to find you hanging there like hooked meat. Promise me your in peace. Atleast one of us will be. I love you~Rabbit

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Sun, 1993-10-31 - Fri, 2008-10-31

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Pippa Gibson

so you took yourself away from us and never told us why. we made your grave so pretty and lit candles by your side. we hope youve gone to heaven where the party will go on. pippa we all love you and cant believe that you are gone. have fun up there x

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Fri, 1988-01-01 - Mon, 2007-01-01

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Sam

You didn't have to do it, Sam. But you did, and now I'm here all alone. I never take off the ring you gave me three days before you killed yourself. I don't want to be angry with you, but I'm not sure how not to be. It was my fault, and I will always feel guilty for that. You told me what you were going to do, and then promised me that you were joking. You PROMISED me that you weren't serious. But you were lying and I knew it. I always used to be able to tell when you were lying. But I didn't say anything to anyone. I'm sorry I didn't save you. Kass misses you so much. She thinks she taught you how to SI. No one knows that you and I did it together, and no one is going to. Our arms don't match anymore. I tried to stop when you died because that's what you would have wanted, but I couldn't. It was too much. I'm sorry. It doesn't feel right to move on without you, but I'm trying. I keep reminding myself that you loved me too much to have left me without knowing that I would be okay. I hope it's true. I miss you. I love you. I'm sorry.Oh, and, don't worry. I won't forget.~Sarah

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Date of Birth - Date of Death: 
Sat, 1995-02-25 - Thu, 2009-01-22

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Credits

Poem, 'We Remember Them,' from the New Union Prayer Book for the Days of Awe. Author Unknown. Idea for 'In Loving Memory,' inspired by Something Fishy Website on Eating Disorders