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    Be careful about who you'll tell it

    • I do not speak english, so I'm sorry any mistakes. ;)

      I told that I do this for four people in total, and only one worth it.. I'm not telling you to keep it for yourself and pass through it alone, i'm just warning you to be carefull and think well before you tell anyone.

      The first two people that I told. I was in a "I don't care" phase, and I walking a lot with two boys, we were kind of friends, but I didn't knew them for a long time. They told me things that you don't tell to everyone, and I decided to tell them that I SI. And I acted like if this was normal and I was okay.. Some time later, when I started dating my boyfriend, they started saying things about me like "there is some things about her that she's not telling you", "she is crazy, you shoud be careful", and my boyfriend got really angry. They almost told him, they only didn't because I had to tell first, and he (my boyfriend) was okay with it, and asked me to stop. He is the only person that worth telling about my SI.

      The last person I told about it, is my best friend. I prefer chat with her about it than with my boyfriend, because she understands, and don't keep asking me to stop doing it. So why didn't worth telling her? Because she started doind it to. She has some problems with her family, but I never thought that she would SI.. And I feel very gilty for putting the idea on her mind, and even more because of the fact that I can't help her, since I can't stop.

    • Person Female, 16 years old, brazilian, started with 13.
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